Ie everything about them is transactional.

There is no chance of connection or chemistry.

Its "do you have the looks/money/status? Ok I will open my legs. If you don't? Fuck off".

Their bluntness and uncouthness is like a hooker off the street.

Even when I pass the 'standard' for this transaction, I find it uninspiring and offputting.

I have just realize I should just consider all westen women prostitutes, and treat them as such. Makes things more simple.