Q4A : How to freely discuss sexual strategy when risking to mislead weirdos ?

sadomasochrist · 2019-02-04T22:02:08+00:00

Failure is a prerequisite to growth for all but the 90th percentile.

Atlas_B_Shruggin · 2019-02-04T20:55:10+00:00

What "we"?

atlantic68 · 2019-02-05T08:28:50+00:00

It's over for weirdos.

Mr_Smoogs · 2019-02-04T20:16:44+00:00

I don't know what you really mean by "mislead weirdos," but I'll take a crack. If you don't understand social cues, it is certainly hard to reconcile "WOMEN NEVER ASK FOR IT," with "duhh you autistic weirdo, she was asking for you to make a move." It must be a weird situation to be in (a young naive man) so I have a lot of sympathy. On the one hand, you're told that women never "ask for it," yet on the other you are expected to know when she is "asking" for you to make a move and furthermore, are expected to make the first move.

I think talking about the nuances social interactions with women is the first step. It's not misleading wierdos if you help them understand when women are asking for a man to make a move. Ideally, there would no longer be weirdos if you get them to understand the right indicators of interest etc... Sure some will fall between the cracks and are forever actually creepy and weird, but I think a majority of them can be helped.

I made a similar OP once that basically stated that it is an uncomfortable truth that men will inevitably make women feel discomfort if they are always expected to make the first move. It's up to men to understand and gauge the indicators to where it is reasonable to assume she is asking for it. There will missed shots and misinterpreted signals with this dynamic. I don't really feel bad for women who encounter "creeps" as long as they don't overtly make the woman feel physically threatened. "Creeps" come with the territory of expecting men to do all the leg work.

CamoWoobie10 · 2019-02-04T20:17:20+00:00

I don't care if women feel "uncomfortable" from being talked to by "creeps". Its a natural consequence of the vast majority of men having to make the first move. When theres a clear double standard of appropriate behavior for men depending on their looks, and when men are CONSTANTLY being being misled by bluepillers, it's no wonder some guys think "confidence is the only thing that matters" "Looks are subjective" so they go out and act like a Chad and make women uncomfortable. Unless theres laws enacted where theres a Lookism officer on every corner telling which men are allowed to approach women in what way and which men arent, theres never not gunna be "creepy guys" not "staying in their lane". You reap what you sew. Next time an ugly guy asks how to get women, dont tell him "just be confident" tell him "Dont even try you ugly fucking piece of shit, all you'll do is make women uncomfortable". I feel even worse for the aspie guys who will never just "get it"

SeljukCuck · 2019-02-04T21:49:10+00:00

Just be attractive, simple

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Gravel_Roads · 2019-02-05T11:04:29+00:00

Eh. I'm a weirdo. Most people are kinda weirdos deep down. NOT talking to these dudes certainly isn't gonna help them. Sometimes you just gotta hear things a couple hundred times before it makes sense.

superioritycompl3x · 2019-02-05T16:58:40+00:00

Accusing other people of being autistic or socially impaired in order to feel better than they are is one of the dumbest, most annoying trends of the late 2010s. It's so prevalent on reddit and not even done with a tasteful kind of self effacing irony, which would be more than justified given the demographic here, so it's not even remotely funny. God this site is cancerous.

Q4A : How to freely discuss sexual strategy when risking to mislead weirdos ?

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Title	Q4A : How to freely discuss sexual strategy when risking to mislead weirdos ?
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Date	February 4, 2019 8:04 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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