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TRP: How difficult is it to get attractive white girls in USA if you aren't a white yourself?

Geedbycircumstances

December 6, 2014
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Title TRP: How difficult is it to get attractive white girls in USA if you aren't a white yourself?
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Geedbycircumstances

Upvotes 0
Comments 24
Date December 6, 2014 11:27 PM UTC
(11 years ago)
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[–]Diegosmiles_ 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, like a latino planning to move to the USA I really want to know the answer of this question. Specially, because in many places in the seduction community I have read that being a white male represents an advantage in a lot of places.

EDIT: places including my country, where an average white guy (from US or Europe) can get easily a 10.

[–]Gold_Mouth 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Probably won't be too hard for a latino.

[–]Geedbycircumstances[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Looks like you will either get your answer or a bunch of unwanted rants. I did the search and found no answer at all, it was typically:

  1. Whiny minorities talking about how awful white women are (lets face it, they could not accept the fact that they will have to have some SMV to get with a good looking one and are just frustrated)

  2. Asian and Indian guys whining about how all white girls hate them

  3. Racist and angry white guys talking about how the white gene pool needs to be kept pure, oddly there were not many posts like this.

Red pill is a quality sub which is why I brought the question here as opposed to other subs.

[–]throwinout 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Its no secret that Asian men are emasculated in the Western world. However, in my own group of South Asians the girls we have gotten with were white (the most numerous), Hispanic, Asian, and very infrequently black. I'd say we can do just fine with white women, but obviously not as good as white men - they still have a distinct advantage there. Don't focus on white women, be glad we live in the US where racial diversity is good. We can appreciate it, even if the hypergamous, white-man worshippers can't.

[–]Geedbycircumstances[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

When you say just fine with white women, what kind of quality are we talking then?

This thread is talking about getting the white girls in the 7,8, and even 9 category while being a minority so if you can do that then there is no need to complain since not even most white men seem to be able to do that.

[–]throwinout 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

Surprisingly good actually. One of my friends was the quarterback in high school and took the hottest girl in school to prom, and even now dates a very hot white girl. In high school, I did pretty well too - a standout was the only natural blonde-bombshell I have been with, easily an 8 (relatively speaking, in our own community). Recently in college the quality hasn't gotten back up there yet. Mostly 5-7s, but still pretty good. All of the half-white half-Indian friends I have, have an Indian father.

[–]Geedbycircumstances[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

wow, what part of the US is this in?

[–]Gold_Mouth 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago* (6 children) | Copy Link

I think Asians and Indians need to quit bitching about white girls. They're as easy as anybody else, but this white girl worship thing you all seem to do won't make them any more attracted to you. It probably creeps their asses out.

EDIT: Matter of fact, all your posts seem to be about white girls. Are you that guy that keeps making threads about how hard it is for an Indian to fuck a white girl? I don't think your race has much to do with your lack of success, it's your insecurity.

[–]ilphae1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

BTH, white girls are the biggest sluts of them all.

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[–]Gold_Mouth 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Yes they are, at least where I am.

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[–]Isabele_ 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

White men are the "default" men. I have to gauge a man every time I meet one and in my mind I get to build him up in character traits as I get to know him. A non-white man is like.....an acquired taste. I feel I have to adjust my pallet in order to be able to have chemistry with him. Black men (I've only ever fooled around with one, one time) are also on default in our minds because of the stereotypes. The pre-conceived notions about them make them easier to "adjust" to. All other groups are so alien that you keep finding yourself blindsided by certain traits. This perspective does come from a "racist" mental point of origin but it is what it is. I don't look down on non-whites (I also don't have white guilt) but I do in the back of my mind register them as "different" to the point where dating them would require more work as I would have to adjust myself. I know this is irrational and not true. But it is how I and most of my friends feel.

To actively seek out or date exclusively a non-white man I think would require a bit of a fetishization of that particular race. I think that's why it's easier (more comfortable) to date a black man than any other group that's not white, because pop culture has made them mainstream so it doesn't feel like you're trying anything exotic.

[–]Geedbycircumstances[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

ya but we are not talking immigrants here, we are talking asians or indians born and raised in america

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Not very difficult if you have a satchel of cocaine.

[–]MasterBaiterX 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

What a worthless thread. People find such stupid shit to focus on, you need to get out or hell even stay in and improve yourself.

A high value male of any race can do just fine, whatever anyone who isn't you or the current woman you have in mind does or doesn't do is irrelevant.

So sick of the race threads it's fucking pathetic.

[–]Geedbycircumstances[S] -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

bullshit my friend, I see high value asian and indian men having tons of problems getting with white women here in the tri state area

[–]ilphae0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago* (6 children) | Copy Link

Non-PC answer, just how I see it:

If you are handsome, have strong game, and dress well, you can smash white chicks. The higher quality, the more you will need of the above three items. Black guys have it the easiest of any non-white man. That trend peaked in the 90s. Lately it has been normalizing. Or, as you said, the stigma is equalizing for all non-white males.

West, Southwest, and South are still very racist. Northeast and Midwest has the most opportunity for non-whites dating white women. New York and Chicago specifically would be your best choices.

As a white man, I will tell you from my perspective. Most white guys are turning in to Beta Bucks these days. They are so scared that their woman has been "tainted" by a BBC or otherwise, that they would reject any woman that has dated a non-white. It is male insecurity. Most white women know this and have adjusted themselves accordingly. You can find the same trend with asian men avoiding any asian woman that has dated outside of her race.

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[–]ilphae0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link

Of course it's possible. I would say pound for pound a black man is at a significant advantage. There is so much cultural shit working against indian and asian men in the USA. They are stereotyped as the geeky, beta, anti-sex god. A black man is stereotyped as a stud. This is Hollywood level programming since birth. That shit runs deep psychologically.

To compound the issue, what is cool in black culture(hip-hop, dance, being alpha, being athletic) is very cool for white people. What is cool in indian and asian culture (bollywood style dance, J-pop, skinny men, etc) is usually uncool in white culture.

I would say focus on the things that transcend this. Money, power, status, and fitness. Anyone can get anything with those attributes. Or, you can always relocate to a more favorable environment.

Honestly, being white does not give you a free ticket to pussy. There are so many loser white dudes getting no action. Get your shit together and it will flow.

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[–]ilphae0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

There are plenty of white chicks that don't care what color your skin is after they get to know you. Yeah, sure some are bitches and will Next you because you are a different race. But generally the problem is that they'll pre-judge you before they know you. You should find a way to show your value and help women know you better. That can overcome the instant judgement shit. Join clubs, be publicly visible. Make a lot of white guy friends and they will introduce you to their circle of friends that includes white girls.

[–]escapingpsychos 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

funny you say that, I thought latinos were on the same level as black men when it came to it.

[–]Maaahoney 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Does anyone else notice this post sounds exactly like few others from today about the same topic? Mostly throwaway account usernames. OP did you post under another name about a month ago?

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