Women may cheat, but so can you. One of the main themes running through this sub is about avoiding women that have high partner counts and focusing on virgin brides to improve your chances at happiness, or some state of magical bliss and harmony.

I hate to break it to you, but if you are waiting around to find the perfect virgin bride, you will die alone. Even if you found her and locked her down, how can you guarantee she won't feel trapped and want to experiment after the little family unit has begun? I fully support the argument that fewer previous partners is better, but I don't give up on a woman just because some loser got to her first.

Now, I am not talking about your 20+ partner counts. That is a party girl that should only be treated as such, have fun, keep it light. But a decent girl with 5-10 dudes under her belt is not garbage in my book, I would give her a fighting chance at a LTR. Let me tell you why.

  1. If you get in to a LTR, it is no longer the ball and chain that it used to be. Lead your woman to have the relationship you want. Let's say you get a nightmare scenario, she plays the good girl card for several years and you marry her. Or, more likely you slip up and lose frame. Later, she cheats on you and your life is destroyed. Wrong. She has given you a golden ticket to go fuck as many younger hotter women that you want. She can NEVER complain because she changed the rules. Don't talk about it. Don't look at her with hate and hurt in your eyes. Go out for beers with the guys to vent and complain if you need to. Then, be that stoic man of the house and go get yours. This is how families have run for thousands of years. Desperate housewives did not begin with the feminist movement. Always keep up appearances to the outside world. This will benefit your career, social standing, and personal friendships. You should continue to defend your wife's social standing as it will benefit you in the long run.

  2. People change, sometimes for the better, sometimes for the worse. You can't expect the woman you marry to be the same woman over time. Finding the dream girl is very exciting, but she is a flash in a moment of time. In fact, she probably only existed in your imagination. Ask yourself if your dating experience has changed you. I for one would never go for some of those lazy boring chicks I smashed back in the day. We shouldn't assume that every woman was riding the CC. There are millions of women with a handful of average or below-average sexual partners. If she had found a great guy, she probably would have stuck around. Go be her Alpha.

  3. Marriage/Plate/Next are not your only options. In this day and age we must use the spirit of the times to our advantage. Explain to your woman why marriage is a poor choice. It instills complacency, jealousy, and greed in our partners. Instead, you can put a woman you are on the fence about in a permanent LTR. If she repeatedly demands the ring, that is a great shit test to know she was running game on you to begin with. This gives you all of the positives with the least amount of risk. I highly recommend this choice.

Breaking free from the Disney princess bullshit is only the beginning. We also need to crack those 1950s marriage expectations. Don't stop half way and complain about the lack of decent women. Go get something and enjoy your life!

Edit: spelling