Is it really that hard to get girls as a man nowadays?

[deleted] · 2018-09-26T21:29:30+00:00

No incel threads.

sublimemongrel · 2018-09-26T20:27:38+00:00

Do you think r/incels is particularly representative of “men” in general?

darudeboysandstorm · 2018-09-26T20:22:13+00:00

One you give two shits about sure.

Sad_Virgin_Beta_Male · 2018-09-26T20:12:09+00:00

Yes.

petrichordium · 2018-09-26T20:26:29+00:00

Copy pasted from a question just posted with a similar subject:

I’m an underweight 5’6” dude in full manlet territory and I haven’t been single for more than 3 months at a time in the last 15 years. I try sometimes, but i just keep meeting rad girls who take up my attention. Honestly I don’t know who the average man is, but i have many of the physical shortcomings men online whine about, and they haven’t held me back too much. I think their REAL binding constraints are personality, lack of IRL socializing, and not actually liking women.

always_sad12 · 2018-09-26T21:06:32+00:00

No it’s not. This is Reddit the majority of men here are not the kind of guys who do well with women. I have 427 days played on RuneScape and have always had a girlfriend or fling and I’m only 5’9 (have been lifting for many years though).

NalkaNalka · 2018-09-26T21:20:59+00:00

If you are a overly socialized neurotic risk adverse guy who likes playing by the rules then yes. Otherwise it's never been easier.

toronto87 · 2018-09-26T20:23:16+00:00

It depends on what type of man you are.

As you get above the 80th percentile it's better than it's ever been and it get's even better exponentially as you climb the quintiles. For the top men, tinder gives you access to more and easier casual sex than ever before. And as you really get to the absolute top for men tinder is basically like ordering pizza except it's ordering thot's instead. For everyone below that it's worse than it's ever been and getting worse.

AutoModerator · 2018-09-26T20:10:19+00:00

Attention!

You can post off topic/jokes/puns as a comment to this Automoderator message.
For "CMV" and "Question for X" Threads: Parent comments that aren't from the target group will be removed, along with their child replies.
If you want to agree with OP instead of challenging their view or if the question is not targeted at you, post it as an answer to this comment.
OP you can choose your own flair according to these guidelines., just press Flair under your post!

Thanks for your cooperation and enjoy the discussion!

I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.

[deleted] · 2018-09-26T20:26:20+00:00

If they think so, I imagine that their experiences have a level of validity. It's likely that, for men in certain communities who hold certain attitudes, relationships with women are both terrifying and desirable beyond an achievable level. An echo chamber of these beliefs about women and these fears about loneliness and isolation has allowed many of them to cultivate beliefs that are truly evil.

Their sub is full of real expressions of real human misery, from people who have closed the door on help. I wish them safety, health, happiness, and peace. The door is shut, but it isn't locked.

wtknight · 2018-09-26T20:35:59+00:00

It’s somewhat but not incredibly difficult for me. I don’t know what other guys experience, though. It depends upon what you mean by “get girls” too. For casual sex I think that it’s much more difficult.

[deleted] · 2018-09-26T20:57:17+00:00

It's hard to find quality girls

Title	Is it really that hard to get girls as a man nowadays?
Author	FunnyInsurance
Upvotes	0
Comments	14
Date	September 26, 2018 8:10 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/9j62bd/is_it_really_that_hard_to_get_girls_as_a_man/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/PurplePillDebate/is-it-really-that-hard-to-get-girls-as-a-man.260691 https://theredarchive.com/post/260691

Comments