In my life, I found that the appeal large breasts and a large butt decrease as I got older. They went from potent turn on in my late teens and early twenties, to a passive comfort in my late twenties, and now in my early thirties looking forward, I see them further depreciate in sex appeal into a comedic spectacle / embarrassment.

I first noticed this in my 20s when I found that all the rich older men were dating quite androgynous women. And Curvy women who peaked in the 20s, for whom High School and University Chads competed for, often ended up back on the market in their 30s either as single moms or after a divorce. Signifying that their men grew out of them.

Now I'm not saying that curvy women make bad wives, or are inferior in any way. In fact, a lot of curvy women in their thirties attract much younger men and enjoy quite fulfilled sex lives. Even better perhaps than skinny women. I myself had a 8 year relationship with someone curvy and she was 15 years older with probably the best white butt in a 50 mile radius. Wowzers! Turning heads wherever we went. It was a great ride for both of us. Eventually, I grew out of her, and she went through to menopause. But the influence of this age gap means I cannot objectively isolate it being just a Curve thing that I grew out of.

So that's my question.

-1. Does the appeal of curves diminish as Men get older?

-2. If yes, what do you think is the cause?