Key points:

  1. Live within his means
  2. Stop whining about everything and being negative
  3. Put your husband first
  4. Stop withholding sex
  5. Stop playing games

Sadly, we all know most will hamster away into excuses why they shouldn't have to follow rules, but hey, progress is progress no matter how small.

http://familyshare.com/marriage/5-ways-you-are-unknowingly-destroying-your-husband-and-killing-your-marriage