Why can't women understand that dating is fucking hard as a guy and that some men want to be pursued too?

273 points•161 comments•submitted by throwra_0_arworht to r/LeftWingMaleAdvocatesFSW Dating

Every conversation I've ever had about this devolves into how women face sexual harassment way more than guys in the dating realm.

Hardly anyone takes me seriously about the actual point of the discussion of wanting to be pursued which is an issue with gender roles more than harassment.

It's just fucking frustrating because no one will offer you empathy if you say dating is hard as a guy. Everyone makes it about them and just tells you to work on yourself.