Have you ever had blue balls/vulva? If so, how many times? How distressing was it?

hakosua · 2016-09-07T05:25:52+00:00

I'm probably unusual in that what I like most is sexual role-playing or story-telling (genital stimulation optional). You'd think it'd be hard to get blue vulva that way -- actually, can we come up with another name here? That sounds like a quote from an autopsy report.

But, yeah, I get blue-whatever'd pretty frequently. Like, we might be sending dirty messages and then suddenly my partner is at a family dinner or my iPhone battery is dead or my friend is all up in my space or her coworker walks in.

In the past, I've been fortunate to find compatible and geographically proximal people who share my kinks. This has also always led to blue-balls (or the lady-bits equivalent); relationships tend to end and, when they do, I'm back to relying on imagination and/or wifi.

But through all this, I've come to think of my own sexual frustration as a mark of good fortune; it indicates that I made it work sexually with another human being. I'm not implying that everyone should be so grateful -- I've blue-balled enough guys myself to appreciate how much it sucks for those of us with higher sex drives. I think, instead, what I mean to say is, however distressing I find it, there's always a twist of sweetness for me too.

ABCYZ · 2016-09-07T04:05:14+00:00

Omg, all the time.

I hate being interrupted :(( it makes me want to cry...especially when I'm in that stage close to orgasm. It's like a mixture of anger and sadness.

Ruined orgasms are especially distressing. Like...I'm almost there ;-;

betterdeadthanbeta · 2016-09-07T04:12:20+00:00

Sometimes, when fucking my wife and our kid interrupts. It's not a huge deal.

Just an aside, but I've noticed a surprising number of women are into orgasm denial.

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[deleted] · 2016-09-07T04:07:31+00:00

Yes. Most days of the month. It's a large area of the pelvis that becomes engorged and you want sex, but you're too busy to do anything about it and your guy is at work. (Sorry for TMI).

mistixs · 2016-09-07T04:10:33+00:00

Blue vulva is a good name for a seafood restaurant.

[deleted] · 2016-09-07T04:32:56+00:00

i will also say that getting interrupted can be frustrating, especially when you're close. it really is a mix of sadness and anger, not fun to deal with.

i don't do much when i'm on my period, so that can also get annoying after a few days (though not nearly as bad as being interrupted). the time after that totally makes up for it though :) .

Askeiu · 2016-09-07T05:36:47+00:00

I got interrupted right before finishing and had to go out with friends. It was this awful swollen ache, and every time my legs brushed against it while walking it twinged. Took forever to go away.

Now I just keep going if I'm interrupted. Gotta play it safe.

Title	Have you ever had blue balls/vulva? If so, how many times? How distressing was it?
Author	mistixs
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Comments	16
Date	September 7, 2016 3:56 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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