CMV: A lot of guys actually like party girls/sluts/crazy bitches

scrantonic1ty · 2015-09-24T06:45:53+00:00

There's a limit to how submissive a girl can be before it becomes soul-sucking. She sounds like one of those people with a kind of anti-personality, not only does she not have one, but she saps those of others around her in her personality black hole.

I get like that when I go through a depression, I am not a pleasant person to be around even though I'm superficially inoffensive.

wombatinaburrow · 2015-09-24T07:14:59+00:00

Some people just like drama. If that drama comes with a vagina, then all the more bonus for some men.

bones_and_love · 2015-09-24T07:51:15+00:00

And no it's not always a case of a guy liking that kind of girl despite her personality just because she's hot, some guys actually prefer that type of personality on a girl. Not all guys like the innocent, prudish virgin and many guys will consider such a girl boring. In my experience guys who prefer this type of girl (the crazy party slut) tend to be emotionally stunted in some way or afraid of intimacy. I see a similar phenomenon with girls displaying these personality traits. I think some people need the emotional rollercoaster of a crazy partner.

Both men without skill (nerds, red pillers, etc.) and women without skill (feminists, fat women, etc.) will claim the other sex is broken for having sex with others (since those others are not them, of course). It's a common trick -- you can't have the sex you want, so it suddenly becomes a virtuous choice. Suddenly, the opposite sex becomes broken and those of your same sex are just immoral.

But that's not how it is.

What is actually going on is that the people belonging to either sex that fuck a lot have a lot of training, so they're way more charismatic, pick up on nonverbal queues a whole lot better, make people around them feel great, and they know how to seduce. Beyond that, they know how to fuck too. These are all things that are about as objectively good as you can get when trying to win someone over.

That's all that's going on here. People fuck "party sluts" or "players" because they're awesome. Stop being delusional.

I can't tell you how many women I swipe left to on Tinder just because they look "boring". But the thing is she isn't actually "boring" or "fun" -- she just seems like she can't charm at all, like she has little culture (fake culture or real). I'm into a woman who at least pretends to know, a woman who can move herself in a way that turns my burners on, a woman who can talk and make me feel comfortable around her.

TheGreasyPole · 2015-09-24T08:21:03+00:00

Yeah,

All I can say is your friend seems like a weirdo.

Even you and your friends/family can see this is not normal behaviour.

It seems he likes crazy chicks. I'm pretty sure that's not going to work out well for him in the end, assuming he doesn't see the light first.

The only quibble I will make with your OP is that you said...

He was also offput by her low self-esteem (something TRP says is attractive in women).

I don't think "low" self esteem is ever particularly attractive. I'm not sure I've seen RP describe it so either.

I think we go on about "entitled" and so, presumably, "high self esteem" girls a lot. But I'd say the attractive quality here is just to be in the normal range. Neither high nor low.

That's not to say RP guys wouldn't look past low self esteem, particularly as that might have other advantages to our less able brothers, but I don't think it's actually sexual attractive.

Even taking the view that it might give you tactical advantages seems a push... IME low self esteem is much more a PITA than anything else.

Title	CMV: A lot of guys actually like party girls/sluts/crazy bitches
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Upvotes	5
Comments	14
Date	September 24, 2015 6:28 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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