There is always another guy next up to bat

tits_out_forTheBoys · 2015-01-19T08:51:27+00:00

we broke it off because I got a little soft and she wanted a relationship and I didn't. She lost attraction.

This is how I know you're in good shape, OP. You've taken responsibility for your faults. To me that means you have a brighter future ahead of you.

Padre55 · 2015-01-19T06:58:57+00:00

Eh, have come to expect it tbh. Feel that oneitis stuff burn away, otherwise the male hamster "what did I do wrong" spins your wheel.

You said you got soft, probably from listening to her, also note you devalue yourself. To be blunt, when she is sucking some other fella or a female friend to climax, she is not staring up at the stars and wondering what you are doing afterwards.

Geronimo! Pull the ripcord and let that plane go on it's way

Zanford · 2015-01-19T18:39:17+00:00

6'4" 290 lbs? Lose some weight, and your height will show itself as a big advantage in attracting new girls.

NightwingTRP · 2015-01-19T12:53:55+00:00

You've taken the pain and you're still growing (mentally and emotionally) bro. One of the things which I like to remember at any emotionally tough time is what was said to me by a bro on here I greatly respect: "Men are forged through hardship, conflict and adversity." Women just are.

I remember my last relationship before I was unplugged... she'd gone on a date 2 days later and had a new boyfriend before 2 weeks had even passed. It hurt back then... but now that I understand what's really going on... with so many thirsty guys who have a scarcity mentality... her getting a new boyfriend 2 weeks later was the equivalent of me choosing to get down the gym and repair the damage she'd done to me. The difference was, I did that within the first week. Women's value in their head is defined by how high SMV of a man they can attract. Remember this because you know how to work on your value. Getting back on the horse is a different process for men and women (depending on how high your SMV is now... if it was higher then you'd just grab a new plate, but it sounds like it's not high enough to do that quickly/easily. So you do the next thing: raise it higher!)

redpillbanana · 2015-01-19T09:54:04+00:00

We ended things about a month ago

Today she posts a picture of her kissing her new boyfriend. It's insane how fast a girl can get another dude. Christ.

That's actually relatively slow for a woman - usually they have a guy lined up the next day.

Use the extra time to improve yourself. Lift/work/study/expand your social circle.

aguy01 · 2015-01-19T17:15:31+00:00

Now that you have some experience it will be that much easier to get new girls. You are much better for having had that experience, and are far ahead of where you were when you met her. You'll be fine.

Gimprome · 2015-01-19T07:22:06+00:00

Read|Lift|Forget about her. You're fat, lose some weight. Step your game up, and stop caring about losing someone. There are billions of girls out there, no reason to ever get stuck on one or dwell on the past. Plan for the future, and make your life awesome.

JACKDOGBOB · 2015-01-19T15:20:57+00:00

Dont sweat it man. If she has a new bf that fast, she obviously is LTR material in the first place. Hey at least you lost your v card in the process so you have that going for you. Going forward, you cant become too attached to women or the pain that comes along with losing one will gnaw away at you inside. Go lift, study, work. Block her on all social media and maybe block her from your phone. Trust me, itsbest that you not see every picture she posts or who she is with. Do this for your mental health. Just focus on imporoving yourself and the women will follow.

Malinois · 2015-01-19T08:01:58+00:00

That could be a good thing. Not your problem anymore, right?

thebluepillsucked · 2015-01-19T20:59:15+00:00

nah... contrary to a lot of the guys posting here. you're young. Girls in this age range go through boyfriends like toilet paper. Nothing you could do to prevent this or stop this. The only thing they are good for is plates or one night stands.

Their shit tests are essentially them self destructing, you can be perfect and they would still cheat on you, breakup with you and be banging the next guy at the same time.

Shake it off and try again... personally I wouldnt try to have a ltr with a girl until you're 30... Date around and have fun...

Title	There is always another guy next up to bat
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Date	January 19, 2015 6:41 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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