We matched 3 weeks ago we messaged a little back and forth then I asked her to come to the mall with me she told me to go do it myself, went a little beta with my following messages and she ghosted me.

A week goes by, I messaged her are you ”always this talkative” and then she said she ”lost my number” and had super high interest. I played it cool, she asked me to hang out like 4 times but I couldnt hang out until 5 days from then (today). She said I was mean and I never wanna hang out. She also told me she has her v-card still. We talked on the phone she was super submissive, acting all sweet, good morning texts and all that. 4 days after she starts acting weird (left 2 of my messages on read).

First I asked her if she was good because I noticed her distancing herself. She said “everything is fine I’ll text you tomorrow I have some work to do” etc. I didnt get emotional or anything I left her on read. I knew something was up.

So the day came and no hello text or good morning text nothing.

So I did this.

I flaked on her and lied to her saying something came up and I had to go into work obviously just covering my ass because I don’t want to seem needy or putting her on a pedestal. She goes “its fine” a couple hours go by, she knows what time I get out of work so she texts me 5 mins after I “get out” and says “I guess your still busy but im going to bed goodnight”.

I didnt read it yet but I have no idea what to do. Theres still so many details to this but I dont want to type everything out. Not sure what to do.

Should I act normal unphased, or just try to reschedule for next week?