Had protected sex with ex-girlfriend. Threw the used, tied-in-knot rubber to the bedroom floor, and passed out. Next morning, she's in the bathroom when I get out of bed and condom is missing. Ask her about it and she says she threw it in the garbage. Checked all the garbages while she was in the bathroom and checked the bathroom garbage when I went in there. Never found it. Did not check the freezer. Broke up with her a week later.

Three months later, a friend tells me she's preggers. A few more months go by, she has a baby. 3 children now. Being a potential borderline personality disordered bitch, I can not put it out of my mind that the kid might be mine and she's waiting 17 years to collect back child support like she intended on doing to her other babies' daddy...

It's been two years of no contact and I was baited to go to her fathers bar last night by her biker gang buddies. I dodged that bullet, luckily.

How can find out that the latest child she had is not mine without breaking my "no contact" policy? If I walked into her father's bar and asked her while she's working who knows what would happen...

She has 1000 Facebook friends that all believe that I am the bad guy, as well...I dumped her because I found out she was meeting guys off of dating websites while I was at work...

Any advice is appreciated. Thank you, Red-Pillers...