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Could any redpiller convince me that they're NOT just a group of sexually frustrated men who project their trouble getting laid on to all, or at least a majority of men, and are convinced most men have the same issues they do?

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Title Could any redpiller convince me that they're NOT just a group of sexually frustrated men who project their trouble getting laid on to all, or at least a majority of men, and are convinced most men have the same issues they do?
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Date December 7, 2014 3:24 AM UTC
(11 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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[–]throwinoutex-Red Pill, now Purple Man[🍰] 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Most men do have issues TRP talks about. Most men don't have sex with men (unlike yourself), so it may seem like we are more sexually frustrated than you. And it might even be true, but that is because we are not trying to have sex with men (which is easy), but women (which is hard).

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What a neutral title that doesn't break the rules

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

This is the wrong approach.

There are many problems with Alcoholics Anonymous, but you can't really attack it by say, "you're all just alcoholics". People who join TRP go there for "help". If you attack them, you're making TRP's grip on them stronger.

[EDIT]

Also, I think they know that not all men feel like them, and that's part of the problem. I remember when Jennifer Lawrence was getting popular and there were a bunch of posts on feminist blogs implying that they felt pressured to measure up. It's similar with TRP, except they wish to become the person they don't measure up to.

[–]VoidInvincibleFull Measure3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (17 children) | Copy Link

I'm sure some of us are. And we're not allowed to be angry about that? If anger helps people cope, then I see no problem with being angry.

[–]powerkickPoly, Bi, Blue, Betafag1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You're allowed to be angry. I was angry about it when I was in that position. What's disturbing is how TRP HANDLES that anger. Just read the recent thread on TRP regarding black knighting for a good example.

[–]aggressivejoeRecovering SJW0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Yup, many people found TRP for this very reason. Other people apperently cope by abusing prescription drugs.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

BTH isn't a prescription drug, and my use had nothing to do with my sex life.

[–]VoidInvincibleFull Measure-1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yet being angry at women, AND using drugs are "really bad and people shouldn't do it". we HAVE to cope somehow for God sakes.

[–]RedPill4LYFHeterosexual Red Pill Man-2 points-1 points0 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I raged pretty hard when I found TRP. It was a cathartic experience, because I finally realized it's totally okay to be pissed off at how terrible the typical modern woman is.

I got over my anger little by little shortly after and started practicing game. Got laid a few times. Met some really nice girls in different places. Realized that even if society is fucked, most women really do mean well, they're just confused because of the satanic religion of Feminism feeding them lies. Female nature is real, but it's possible to govern it when you're not a slave to pussy.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link

Depends on the focus of the anger. If its towards women who won't have sex with you, that reeks of male entitlement

[–]VoidInvincibleFull Measure-2 points-1 points0 points 11 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

If they wanna be angry at women, then who cares? The only people who care are users of blue pill and feminists. How else can they cope with the women who disregard them simply for their looks/status? Aren't we allowed to be envious of the men who have women every night, and mad at the women for denying us that privilege? Being angry at women is an easy way to cope.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

Aren't we allowed to be envious of the men who have women every night, and mad at the women for denying us that privilege?

Being angry at things you can't change is counterproductive. You're not owed a woman.

[–]VoidInvincibleFull Measure-1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

And the men who get laid every day are? Ok.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

No, they actually work for it, instead of bitching about it, and know they are not owed jack shit. Don't put words in my mouth.

[–]VoidInvincibleFull Measure-1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Being born really good looking is WORKING for it? Being tall and handsome is WORKING FOR IT? I'm sorry-- try living a day in the life of an average to below average man and maybe your view will change.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Not everyone is gifted in the looks department and hating on them because of some petty jealousy is also counter productive. That's how life works. I'm not very gifted in the looks department either but I don't sit and wallow in my own misery about how unfair I have it. I hit the fucking gym, I focus on becoming a person with actual substance and women flock. Why? Because confidence is sexy. I've gotten rejected plenty, but why the fuck would I get angry at the women who rejected me? That's just a waste of time. It's misplaced anger. Move on.

[–]VoidInvincibleFull Measure-1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Dude...you're FUCKIN' RED PILL. What you just said is exactly what the red pill is. I'm no longer angry at the entitled bitches. I've moved on. But there are people on the red pill who are still in the anger phase. They need someone to blame, too, and its easier to blame someone else for their problems, then to blame themselves for being UN-sexy to women. We shouldn't HAVE to hit the gym just so women will want us. we have to, but its stupid that women (and men) are so shallow. But its the way it is. You're red pill just by hitting the gym, by the way.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Dude...you're FUCKIN' RED PILL.

Ugh, I cannot fucking stress this enough: NOTHING OF WHAT I'M SAYING IS EXCLUSIVE TO TRP. THIS SHIT IS COMMON SENSE.

I'm no longer angry at the entitled bitches.

What makes them entitled?

I've moved on.

It doesn't look like you have.

They need someone to blame, too, and its easier to blame someone else for their problems, then to blame themselves for being UN-sexy to women.

It's misplaced anger used to cover their ego boo boos because they are too cowardly to own up to their own shit.

We shouldn't HAVE to hit the gym just so women will want us.

And women shouldn't have to be a size 0 to be considered attractive.

we have to, but its stupid that women (and men) are so shallow.

EVERYONE is shallow. Fucking hell, my own dog is shallow. She only sits when I have a treat in my hand or if she gets some type of reward afterwards.

You're red pill just by hitting the gym, by the way.

Going to the gym is the most generic piece of advice around. It's been around since before TRP even existed.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ill address the projecting part. Almost every guy I know will talk about how difficult it is to have ONS or fuck buddies or avoiding dead bedroom in marriage etc. None of these people would identify as red pill or even know anything about it. I rarely hear men complain about anything but their sex life and crappy job, occasionally their crappy family. I guess I'm just hallucinating all these things men actually say in reality or they just lie maybe.

[–]Unpopular_But_RightRed Pill0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Well, I have been with my current girlfriend for a year and get sex on the regular, and I think TRP is a very necessary resource. It's not really about getting laid.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Look, I'm not "sexually frustrated" and unable to release my sexual tensions. I've gotten my dick sucked by 19 women. Many of whom would be considered very attractive by a majority of heterosexual men. I'd hardly say I qualify as a total beta loser virgin. I believe in RP philosophy because it reflects the reality I see in my every day life. I don't want RP philosophy to be true, but it is. I accept the harsh truths of reality whether I want to or not because that's the kind of person that I am.

[–]cxj75% Redpill Core Ideas-1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

IDK I don't have that much trouble getting laid. Not sure if I qualify as a technical redpiller tho. My lays average 5-8, not like I have some harem of 10s. I've also gone through some pretty bad dry spells, but who hasnt?

I'm also not that mad tho

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