I was so hesitant to share this piece of experience, but since it came as a surprisingly accurate proof of TRP, I thought some of you might be interested. Please bear with my Non-native English. I try to keep it short.

Warning: This is not intended to promote cheating. I know there is a controversy on the subject here. I personally think it is wrong, but I do not intend to discuss it in this post. Figure it out for yourself or discuss it in the comments if you like to.

Background: I have been with my LTR for almost 5 years. She has high RP standards and I always kept our relationship dynamics based on RP truths (without even knowing it for long). It was about a year ago that I felt things are getting different. I was getting too comfortable in my LTR and giving up frame here and there. I was no more willing to walk away at any moment. As a result, I felt a sensible amount of decline in her respect for me and in her attraction (both intellectually and physically) towards me. It wasn't a big deal I thought, as she was still very RP in action (cooking, cleaning, doing stuff on demand) most of the time and I liked spending time with her. Without even knowing, I did something that hyped everything back up like I could never imagine: I cheated on her.

Well, I always thought that if I cheat on her, she would never respect me again even if she stays with me. She would try to use it against me and leverage it to enforce her frame. I was wrong.

It happened in summer while I was gone for an internship. I remember her making a joke on Skype daring me to attract a girl there. I realized she thinks I am too beta to do that. Her image of me was so distorted and I hated it. Since I was in an American tech company and the female minority were American girls (putting me in a disadvantage as an non-white international), she probably thought I do not have a chance. Didn't I though? The story is too long for this post, but long story short, I did it. And boy, wasn't she an upgrade! I really had no intention of leaving her or even cheating on her, but I had a "challenge accepted" mentality that couldn't be stopped.

When I came back, I told her everything right away (now I don't think this is the right thing to do in general). She was emotionally torn apart. I was honestly feeling really bad and promised myself to do my best to calm her down for a while. I liked her after all. But that's not the point. What happened, you ask?

I had the best sex of my life on the very first night. My frame was stronger than ever. No matter how many beta things I did to make her feel better, she was still completely in my frame. I have had the most sexually active period of my life (at least five times a weak) and I could get anything on demand. I could never guess it would work like this.

As a last note, I still think you shouldn't cheat on your LTR. It's a too powerful weapon and you might end up doing more damage than good for yourself. That's why it's called nuclear dread. I think cheating implies some levels of insecurity, since a true man should know what he wants and be forward about it. In general, I think hiding is usually out of fear. I admit I wouldn't have cheated if I was perfectly confident in my qualities and didn't need a proof for myself. I have been working on improving myself ever since and I owe that to TRP. No matter how good you think you are, you should always improve!

Peace.