This facebook thread was posted to r/justneckbeardthings.

The comments speak for themselves, there's a handful which suggest there's anything disingenuous about the girl's behaviour:

She knew. My housemate is like this with all her male friends. Her friends are pathetic. And she is a cunt for leading them on.

This is why you don't post a public comment on how you can't find a guy that is super nice, when that same guy is your good friend. It pretty much just shows off how conceited you are.

Most people would rather assume non-maleficience on her behalf:

It doesn't sound like she's leading him on at all. She says very clearly for the world to hear that she's not romantically interested in him.

Well, it's fair enough if she's not attracted to him.

She obviously meant in a romantic setting. She didn't pretend he didn't exist.

And save the vitriol for the guy instead:

Would it be better if she announced on FB, "oh him, I'm not attracted to him"? Girls get a lot of attention from guys they aren't interested in. It's exhausting to let people down politely, and she seems to do a pretty good job here. Seems like there are a lot of neckbeardy attitudes on a sub for joking about neckbeards...

You're pretty much obligated to sleep with a guy if he buys you Taco Bell.

Which is worse? Acting like you want someone nice and smart when you really just want someone attractive? Or expecting a girl to sleep with you because you bought her taco bell and made her a... 'key necklace'....

Did I accidentally step into r/foreveralone? There's far too much complaining about the woman and defense of the guy in this thread. Sure, she might be oblivious, but he's clinging on to hope that doesn't exist. You can't buy someone Taco Bell and give them a back rub, then magically expect to sail off into the sunset with your hard-earned waifu. He should just move on already.


I actually feel bad for this person, he is probably late teens (hopefully not in his 20s) and was likely raised to believe that this is how modern men attract women: demonstrating kindness and passivity. Her post reinforces his teachings, and he is understandably confused as to how she has missed what he has been doing for her. What he should be doing is cutting her off, hitting the gym, and working to better himself.