So recently I downloaded tinder for the first time and wanted to see what it was all about. I’ve had plenty of success with girls irl and I don’t necessarily need tinder to get laid when I want to. So I’ve gotten some solid matches in the short amount of time that I’ve been on there and have sent a few messages but only about half of them reply. It also seems difficult to start a conversation that gets their attention and then close with a number or set up a date. I know most of you will say “if you’re doing well irl, why even bother”. That’s fair, but I feel like there’s some opportunities here that I may not find as easily if I were in cold approach. Any of you grizzled tinder vets have any tips on openers or ways to keep conversations from dying?