I was seeing a post wall moron that I really just had enough of in October last year. I ended it. I cut ties, it was sort of mutual in the end but I was quite upset about it. It was what I believed to be the closest to an LTR/unicorn I'd found. Until I re-read ROK.com amazing post about 25 signs your girl is a slut. She ticked too many boxes.

Nevertheless I was gutted, and #nonothingnovember came at a great time to deal with my vices and bring some discipline to my stressful life. I learnt about yoga, meditation, and how to relax.

Part of my obvious vices were to chase girls actively, drink excessively, and smoke too often.

I stopped it all, and went into my own version of monk mode. My only regret is it creeped into december, and had the distraction of xmas and nye.

I remember mid december chilling the fuck out, it was bliss. No girl to talk to or chase, no night or party to go to. Bliss I had the best routine. I went to work, then the gym, then come home, do some yoga read and go to bed. I was in paradise.

I even tried nofap for a personal record of 15 days just to see what it was like. It spurred me on to get talking to girls again, I fired up Tinder, POF.com and messaged a few old flames.

Fast forward to now, and I went from absolutely no plates to 5 very cute ones. All from different sources, 2 from Tinder, one from POF, one from twitter of all things and the other was a waitress I met a while ago.

My point is, if youre going through a breakup, a drought, a hard time whatever take a break. Chill the fuck out, focus on your health, your mind and everything.

I'm not bragging about the plates, in fact I am trying to return to my relaxed zen state. I miss it.

I hope this helps.