So my best friend is very blue pulled in everything he does. I care deeply about him however, so I was trying to change this in him by explaining him RP content here and there. No change. None whatsoever.

2-3 weeks ago, I tried to explain to him that it’s in female nature that girls are naturally very judgmental and jealous of each other. I gave an example (thought it might help him understand my point better) using a couple female friends of ours.

When we go to a club, I noticed that these girls tend to gossip about the girls there to each other, say things like “her dress is too short” “it’s the third dude she is making out with in the last hour what a hoe”. And this one time I noticed that I had more interactions with the girls at the club, when I was just with my boys as opposed to the times when I went there with those girls .

I thought this may be because girls know that my girl friends would judge them if they did something with me and maybe it’s better to go out just with your boys. Idk tho I might be right, I might be wrong. Just an observation I made. I explained all this to him and told him that maybe it’s better that it’s just us boys at the club. And he interpreted it wrong and told it all of to the girls. ALL OF IT. I explained what I actually meant to the girls and now we are good, but I can’t get over my best friend betraying my trust.

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