I don't know how I would rank myself on SMC objectively. I downloaded tinder and got about 100 matches in 5 days, if that helps any. I've fucked/plated 20 girls over the last six months. All my plates are at least 7s. I have no problem gaming and spinning these 7s, most are infatuated with me.

The problem is with when I plate a HB8 or HB9. It's only happened three times, but each time, I've caught insane feelings/jealousy/they're on my mind too much. I catch myself thinking, "I could start a relationship with this one", but eventually realize I am a side guy or having the plate lose interest. How do I deal with this?

They've all had various degrees of intelligence and personalities, but they were all objectively very hot, so I think it's the physical attraction itself that causes problems for me.