I am not trying to trash the TRP community, but I am confused. I am 22 in college and I have had success with keeping LTRs and casual sex (almost 60 girls).

I am a very confident person but at the same time I can get very needy if that makes sense to you guys. With my LTRs I would get angry whenever I told them to come over and they said they couldnt. Sometimes I would break up with them but then tell them I want them back and shit and how much I care about them and they always come back.

Like im not gonna lie I know i treat my girlfriends like shit but whenever i ask them to come back they do. My last LTR and I have been through this 5 times now and she keeps saying she cant handle the way I treat her but still sticks around and comes over whenever. Her friends also love me and they always say they know im an asshole but its hard to hate me because of the way i am.

When im single its weird because I am very self conscious about my ego and am scared to hit on girls because i fear getting rejected and looking like an idiot, but sometimes I will meet a girl and just get her snap and eventually to tell her to come over. Sometimes they say yes right away, sometimes they say no. When they say no i will often say "well do you wanna hook up/fuck or not" and then some will say yes to that and some will say no. Usually the ones that say no to that i just delete cuz i dont feel like wasting my time.

NOTE: I have the most success in tinder/snapchat for sure. I have NEVER pulled a girl from the bar and had a one night stand with her, and only ever had one one night stand with a girl after a party.

Am i misunderstanding something? Why do i succeed despite this info given?