Why do guys with beta traits get a lot of girls in college? (Hear me out)

FieldLine · 2019-10-19T17:01:44+00:00

Because often the only thing that matters is being in the right place at the right time with the logistics sorted.

thrwy75479 · 2019-10-19T17:50:20+00:00

are stoners, drink every other night, play video games in free time

In college, that's not beta, that's fun. These are also reasons people get together, which leads to fucking around.

have no goals or ambition or are bad students

Again, in college, the majority is like that, and it's cool.

Here I am looking fit af, crushing classes, and working on my goals and I don't get nearly as much attention.

Because you're investing your time in what's more important: your future self. It's the way life goes. You want a better future, you'll have to spend time now building it.

Girls that are your age now don't see value in that. They live in the moment. Of course, it's an extremely brief moment because after college everything will flip in your favour.

Renzotl56 · 2019-10-19T16:57:42+00:00

Cause they don’t care what others think. Unlike you that is constantly comparing yourself to them.

RedSkeller · 2019-10-19T17:09:07+00:00

Your perspective is they are beta, but women don't judge men the same way men judge other men or women judge women for that matter. These guys probably do whatever the fuck they want and treat their woman as part of their life instead of their life. You're missing something here or you're trying to convince yourself that they are weak men when they're the ones getting laid.

HitoLunai · 2019-10-19T17:45:17+00:00

Probably better looking than you and have better social set ups on top of that

redpilllogin · 2019-10-19T17:57:35+00:00

You sound a bit like rodger elliot. Maybe these guys are actually fun to be around. You seem to be taking things too seriously.

Andgelyo · 2019-10-19T18:41:15+00:00

I call bullshit.

“Look at his flabby arms, one pack stomach, stoner ass with no ambitions! He’s so hot!”....said no girl ever.

Either they’re more social than you are, or have naturally better facial aesthetics than you do.

If you’re looking fit AF, crushing classes, are popular (you left this part out OP), and have a decent looking face, you are definitely doing something wrong.

Differential4201 · 2019-10-19T18:19:48+00:00

They have good game or good logistics. Party animal frat boy types always get all the hottest chicks in college. Even if they are losers.

A lot of what TRP misses is that logistics can often matter more than game or looks. My friend who is a white guy absolutely slays in Asia because he is American. He admitted to me he has never been able to get with a White American girl.

SirNemesis · 2019-10-19T17:51:42+00:00

Most of these guys who get a ton of poon don't work out (or don't take it seriously), are stoners, drink every other night, play video games in free time, have no goals or ambition or are bad students.

That's not beta, quite the opposite. The beta guy is the guy crushing classes and working on goals to become a wagecuck.

FereallyRed · 2019-10-19T21:53:52+00:00

What makes you a genius at rating the SMV of other guys?

fartt123 · 2019-10-20T01:30:41+00:00

I'll tell you what they doing right. I know tons of beta who come to college just to be around girls. I know one who owns 3 businesses and blows his money on girls. fails all the classes but he could afford that. He does have frame not that strong. He is fun to be around. He treats the girls he is around. He sometimes goes to gym. Have tons of cash. That's what does it for him. I know another he doesn't go to uni but is always there. He used to be drug dealer and now is a farmer. He just comes there to have fun. You will also find him with tons of girls. Plus he got endless supply of you know what. He gets all the ratchet tattoo having chicks.

For me and you we gotta approach and not be phased by what others have. you gotta play your game and not be nosy.

IXseed · 2019-10-19T17:01:47+00:00

Those traits may be Beta society-wise but these guys may just be doing everything right when it comes to women. Basically having abundance and making sure her pussy tingles when they're around them.
It's why in the hood we call our chads "Pookie and Ray-Ray". They do the same things (except they actually work out) but just the fact that they act like men around bitches, don't blow their phone up, and can seduce them they take girls down left and right.

If you follow TRP, you will become better catches than even them. Most guys if any at all outside of "naturals" can measure up to a red pill man who's on his shit.

Hungboy6969420 · 2019-10-19T18:04:33+00:00

You suck at game , hence you getting nothing

afterthe_fapocalypse · 2019-10-20T05:19:05+00:00

stay focused. keep your eyes on God. these women are approaching the wall. Keep yourself you. There's a proverb: do not be weary in well doing. Maybe you're looking at the wrong girls.

Haytch1234 · 2019-10-20T11:48:23+00:00

Being an alpha does not mean crushing classes , being fit etc.

Being a good student does not make you alpha.

Alpha is your personality and your mind set. Its not what you do.

You can be an absolute scum bag with no life aspirations and still fuck girls if you are a fun guy with some edge instead of being the guy that " does the right thing".

Crushing classes and working on your goals is for your own personal self and when it comes pussy , it shouldnt even come in the equation.

When it comes to sluts, its about location and how much of an edge you have. It just so happens these qualities would be more common in the guys you mentioned.

Being alpha means you know you deserve all the pussy put there regardless of what you do; These guys dont give a fuck and thats why they get pussy.

Not giving a fuck is not beta.

You have alot to learn.

SeasonedRP · 2019-10-19T23:33:11+00:00

At that age and in that environment, high SMV isn't necessarily the same as for older people in a different environment. Drinking, drug using bad boys get lots of pussy in college.

bodybuilder98 · 2019-10-20T00:37:38+00:00

They dgaf and have game.

MR_SKINNYPENIS69 · 2019-10-20T06:52:13+00:00

Because they're good looking

KrushedIce · 2019-10-25T22:23:13+00:00

I would have to assume that OP isn't utilizing his free time to also build a better social circle. The characteristics that you stated you posses (working out,doing well in class, goal setting, etc.) are all traits that guys in [top tier] fraternities also possess and they're notorious for getting the most pussy on campus. If you build a better social circle and attend fun events, parties, etc. You'll certainly have access to more women. You have the capacity to get just as much, if not more, ass than loser college druggies. It's all in the mind.

harambeazn · 2019-11-05T23:01:34+00:00

This sounds like a SEC school or a large greek life college where half the guys are dadbod mofos riding on their status. Girls in those type of schools usually go for what is considered "safe" in their social circle.

Title	Why do guys with beta traits get a lot of girls in college? (Hear me out)
Author	TorchedSky
Upvotes	11
Comments	39
Date	October 19, 2019 4:54 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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