So my eyes are open. I've been reading the RP handbook and Sidebar religiously now for a few weeks and I'm swallowing the bitter, harsh, but oh so freeing, truth with my Red Pill breakfast. The biggest revelation for me so far is the simple truth to how the "love" of a woman is not at all what we expected growing up, and in fact realizing more and more how incapable women are of showing and feeling that particular definition of love. Unconditional my ass.

Anyway I digress. I've been seeing new women in light of my revelations and have been trying to implement the RP advice, guidelines, theories etc from the comprehensive guides.

I see a lot of room for improvement however and now I've hit a speed bump.

I'm seeing one girl, lets call her Hannah. She's a nice enough girl (a few red flags notwithstanding, dead dad (some father issues), a case of anorexia in her past, nothing horrible though).

I'ts been going well, I've kept her interested by a lot of amused mastery (I'm older, I've got more xp, got a strong social circle and shown her,), also complimented her followed by a day or more of complete silence (done this multiple times), I've given her amazing sex, dominated her in the bedroom and outside of it, taken her on "mystery" dates where she didn't know where we were going, etc. Never showing a moments weakness, I'm considerably stronger and more fit physically etc.

I've felt the Alpha flow freely through me, and I've been a bit of a "nice asshole". To be honest it's been a lot of fun!

(I am also currently working on a second plate but haven't gotten as far with her (1 date + kissing)).

Me and Hannah have been seeing each other a couple of weeks and relatively early on I told her very explicitly that I don't want to share her with other men. While she's seeing me she only see's me. I failed to mention my own "exclusivity" and lack there of.

The other day she then confronted me with it and asked whether the same applies to me. I remembered two things from the RD handbook - be honest and forthcoming about your needs and desires - and the fact that all women WILL practice hypergamy regardless of what we say or do, regardless of rings and promises etc.

I answered: Yes this is what I need. If you do not like it, you may leave, although I'd be sad to see you go. I suggest you see what happens though and continue enjoying what has so far been a very nice time.

At which point she very gently points out that as she feels this is "unfair" (not """""equal"""") and doesn't really see how it would work. Translation: She wants me to be exclusive, hinting that SHE might otherwise leave.

At this point in the conversation I said we should probably both think about it a bit - nothing is ironclad. I gave myself some thinking time.

So what do I do? Stick to my guns? Perhaps my "condition" towards her was a pointless mistake from the beginning, hinting in fact at some weakness in myself? Do I admit that yes: I cannot impose this requirement upon you as I myself do not have the same requirement and therefore accept either exclusivity or free for all?

PS: I've read through Rollo's "The Talk". It feels that some of those things might apply but at the same time I'm feeling like it goes in some a bit too extreme venues. Most important thing I got from The Talk is: "always be prepared to walk away. Always have the option to walk away" - which I explicitly told Hannah during The Talk.

Best,