I have a close friend that I've recently helped discover the red pill. I know that there are mixed feelings about evangelizing the red pill, but he was on the path and had breached the surface on his own. We went out a couple nights ago, and he was unloading on me about his LTR. They've been living together for the last 12 years but are not married. They have no children together, but each have 2 from a previous marriage. All 4 kids are grown and out of the house.

My friend is alpha in many senses. A wealthy business owner and I always thought his relationship was good, but through his ranting, I heard about some issues, I think, could be remedied using the red pill.

Anyway, he told me that he's had it with her and was planning to cheat. He's been talking to a few women and maybe already has. I don't think he has, but I give it a short time before he actually does. He says he has mixed feelings about doing it.

I told him that redpill is designed to fix the man and not his relationship. I told him to get his shit together first, then give her a chance to respond. I told him if she does not, then tell her it's not working and have her move out. I told him passive dread is better and to try that first.

Personally, I think extra marital affairs (in most cases) are a sign of weakness in character and that it just "covers up" or provide a temporary fix to a man's problem. Especially in his case, since he has done this type of thing before and his first marriage ended. Just seeing a repeated pattern.

Guys, any advice I can send his way? Thoughts? I told him about the forum, so if he posts, you'll most likely see it.