Is this a shit test?

Massap24 · 2019-11-07T03:44:27+00:00

“So I guess you got lucky” then set up a date and stop texting her so much. Text for logistics

Sexyladstik · 2019-11-07T04:35:19+00:00

If you can't think of a "witty" response that's gonna wet her pants. Simply ignore it and move on. Say something you wanna say, don't rely on her conversation skills.

A better skill to learn would be agree and amplify. Whenever you feel trapped just agree to whatever the person said to a comedic level.

"That guy tried to kiss me too?!" "Why am I always the unlucky one?" "I think you got me pregnant" Etc.

The point is to be aloof and funny. Disregard what she said. Say something that makes you laugh. Be risky you can even insult a girl if you do it in a harmless funny way.

Keep this short your gonna wanna escelate to a date pretty quick. Golden rule is 5 messages or less.

kclanton80 · 2019-11-07T18:38:30+00:00

Not really a shit test.....she is telling you she is in a slut phase. Response: That's cool, so you should come over Friday for a drink. Be unbothered, be aggressive.

Why are you texting back and forth with this girl? That shows way too much interest. After the initial contact....only text to set something up. Texting can usually only hurt, not help your chances.

She is probably confused as to why this dude is showing so much interest in the drunk chick who randomly kissed him. Your not displaying high value or abundance here.

Ask her to come over for a drink (code for: hey let's fuck!). She displayed to you that she is a slut, act accordingly or she will actually be frustrated at your slow pace.

If she refuses, then move on. You shouldn't be this concerned over a girl who drunk kissed you. That tells me you don't have many options right now. Go get more options.....then you will feel abundance. Abundance cannot be faked.

kclanton80 · 2019-11-07T19:14:05+00:00

Honestly I would let the situation breathe a bit....give her a chance to get in contact with you first. Let her see that there are other things happening in your life. If she doesn't hit you up within 2 weeks. Hit her up and ask her to come for the drink. No small talk

If she does hit you up sooner, again....ask her to come for a drink. Keep the small talk to a minimum.

This shows that you want to fuck her....but you don't NEED to. Women want to fuck the guy with options not the guy who is texting with her every day.

Give her some space....kinda of a soft reset. Let her come back. In 2 weeks you can text her, but only to set a date. This says "if you say no....there won't be another offer any time soon." If she doesn't say yes, or give an alternate day..move on if she has high interest she will find a way to make a date PERIOD

Good luck

Title	Is this a shit test?
Author	zx91zx91
Upvotes	3
Comments	10
Date	November 7, 2019 3:40 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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