I'm 20, and been sober for 2 years now. No problems beforehand, just a choice I made.
Problem is, despite the incredible health & economical benefits , It's for sure leaving a dent on my social game. It's tough to be on the same "wave" as others during the night when you're the only one sober. People view you differently. Sounds stupid, but I think any sober guy here can relate that even if you literally never talk about it to anyone, the "party-crowd" still finds it weird despite how cool you might be. They feel as if they are being judged by you just because you don't drink lmao.
I can't go on dates to bars (which sucks, because getting intoxicated likely gives you a better chance to lay)... like what - am I gonna order fucking water? Suspect as hell.
I'm kinda stuck with only day-game, because going to clubs, especially sober - is pointless. No point in going unless you want to score with chicks, and because I don't enjoy it for any other reason than that - I give off a bad vibe, even if I'm fit as fuck, 6'2 and kinda good looking. Aka I'm not fun to be around at night, at all - I don't enjoy the scene one bit. Maybe getting drunk might help to remedy this problem.
Feels like by not drinking - I'm somewhat killing my night game opportunities.
I don't event want to drink, but I'm strongly considering it just to fit in socially with some crowds and get more opportunities.
Do note that I'm very well aware that this is coming from a scarcity mindset. I doubt I'd be trying to "expand" my opportunities by drinking if I was banging chicks all the time from day game.
Thoughts on what I should do? I'm very well that drinking here is not the problem, but my game is. I'm working on it. In the mean time, should I try drinking to give myself some more opportunities? Because any fucker who's gone sober knows that it's game on hard mode.
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