Hey all,

So about 3 months met a chick off the internet through video games ( I play video games for 1-2 hours a day just to unwind) I met her through mutual friends via internet. I'm not a dude that lacks confidence nor am i ugly id say im a 6.5-7 in terms of looks. She initially reached out to me and asked if we could link up at some gaming convention that my other online friends were going to that ive known for 6+ years. I would send a couple texts to her a day maybe 3-4 but she was super interested in me. Fast forward to the gaming convention, i linked up with my friends a couple days prior to her getting there. The night she got there me and my friends were at the club and i hooked up with some chick, they ended up foolishly sending her the video and she was jealous. I met up with her the next day and we ended up making out, she has a great body and okay face. My friends knew her and i were talking but down the line i found out she sent a couple of them nudes previous to us meeting.

She invited me to go to Oregon for a week since she was going there and wanted someone to go with. I love oregon and plan to move there, i have family and it was a win win for me. I ended up going with her fucking her the entire time and she would ask me if i would be willing to fly out to New york and over the course of a week there she would start to act more girlfriend esque, took me out to a 7 course meal that she paid for which was 400 dollars worth (Shes a software engineer in New York) . She would constantly tell me how it was a shame i was a player etc... and how the stories my friends have told her about me and the previous girls ive hooked up with.

So after the oregon trip we ended up talking i always tried to limit my texts to 3-4 a day. It went from her saying good morning every day to her asking me if i wasnt interested anymore. I would reply with things along the lines of " dont be silly, i cant way to see you". I keep busy between work muay thai and going out with friends trying to meet other ladies. 2 weeks back she offered to fly out to see me (just to clarify its been about a month since i first met her at this point) she ended up flying out here this past weekend, but a couple days prior to that i had been fucking some chick who i met through a mutual friend. it was a one and done situation. The girl from new york that flew out stayed with me for 3 days we fucked went out had a good time. I ended up finding out this guy josh in my friend group has been talking to her, constantly and she told me that he is a "safer option" but she really likes me and wants to date me. i replied " i think youre a cool girl and would like to see new york" So she offered to pay for half my ticket to fly out a couple days before and after new year. I have my best friend from high school in new york as well.

Im tempted to go but i feel as if shes losing interest. Ive been on my grind not over texting by any means i know shes insanely busy but i know at the same time shes talking to the guy josh due to the app we use... Shes been really short with me as well lately. to the point i dont reply at all sometimes. Any suggestion on what i should do. She has sent me half the money for the plane ticket. She just seems less interested as of lately. The other guy gives he soo much attention its unreal, but it seems to be working.. where as i dont over text and stay on my shit especially due to muay thai and competing but i cant figure out where ive gone wrong. Shes 31 and im 24, infact i feel like i havent made too many errors to push her away, ive slept with this chick time and time again. i must be doing something right in order for her to want to fly me out. i just dont understand why she doesnt reach out to me or is short with me but will talk to the other guy hours on end. She sent me a snap of her titty i left a hickey on last night, which was nice.

Ive read Corey Waynes "How to be a 3% man" 3x so far and thats what i base alot of my knowledge off of. ive recently been using this reddit to pick up more information to aid me.