Or does she care more about his relationship qualities? But also finds him attractive.

I find it hard to explain but for me:

  1. I DO care about looks. But looks alone don't translate to sexual energy (though ofc looks come first imo. If a guy did create some sexual energy but I found him ugly, it feels more like a guilty pleasure that I wouldn't entertain)

  2. I only notice guys after they've been really nicr to me. My love languages are acts of service and quality time. So whenever I spent a lot of time with a guy who makes my life easier for me, I become attached. The only exception to this was like ONE guy but I didn't fuck him at the end of the day

  3. People don't make claims about honeymoon seasons for no reason... like passion does decrease and stabilise. So what use is it in priotorising sex?

Unless you're: A) high libido B) not particularly interested in long term monogamy