I already posted this on /r/thebluepill, but I was advised to try here as well.

I'll make it as short as possible and include answers to questions I most often got.

I'm dating a guy for a while and it started getting serious. We get along excelent and he's been treating me extremely well ever since we met. However, the more I get to know him, the more often I realise some of his views are alarmingly misogynist.

What I mean is, he is complimenting me, say, for being smart, but more often than not, he will say it as "all the other girls are stupid and boring, I've never met a girl as smart as you", "all those ugly girls have to wear make-up everyday, but only you can look beautiful even when you wake up", "I see so many fat girls every day, but your body is 10 out of ten", and so on.

At first I thought it's just one of those rubbish things guys think girls want to hear, "you are different, absolutely one of a kind". But this happens just too often. I've never heard him say anything positive about ANY girl or woman other than me.

And there is more, he likes to talk about his friends getting "friendzoned", about his friends not getting enough sex from their wives or girlfriends, about bad women divorcing guys and taking all their money, about girls sleeping around too much, and so on.

I started wondering where it all comes from, and realised he's only ever got guy (heterosexual) geek friends to hang out with and talk. I thought at first maybe he didn't mention girls in the fear of me being jealous, but no. Absolutely no female friends, ever.

He is not an incel as some people suggested. I'd say, he's the opposite. He's talkative and confident and good-looking. As far as I can tell, most of his dating experience comes from tinder, plus maybe some one night stands with girls he met at a bar, none of it was particularly deep. This is hardly suprising, as in his everyday life he is surrounded by male geek friends and I don't think he has many chances to meet girls in a "normal way". The exception would be friends' girlfriends (whom he of course criticises for being stupid, lazy, uninteresting, insert a random insult).

The question here is - do you have any advice on what I should do? Like I said before, I haven't experienced any uncool behaviour targeted at me, quite the contrary, but I still cannot imagine living with someone who hates women so much. Is there any hope to change his mindset, and how can I tackle the matter?

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EDIT: Thanks everyone for your comments. I decided to break up with the guy. I just cannot picture spending my life with someone I feel so disconnected from on a deep level, and I am afraid there is a possibility he might start being abusive/manipulative one day.