is a sin to hook up?

rocknrollchuck · 2018-12-26T16:27:59+00:00

my question is, its okay I only to hook up (make out) with them without any purpose?

Kissing in itself is not a sinful act. But if it causes you to lust, then that's a problem. Jesus said in Matthew 5:28 "But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart." God judges the motives of the heart as well as your actions.

And can you really just date girls and kiss them without wanting it to go further? Your statement

I still have this sexual energy, and when the women come after me, I just have that feeling of battle inside me, I have so much desire to use them for my pleasure, and sometimes this makes me feel guilty, for I see that if I could I would at least get them to have some fun, and I know that sex in somehow would happen, its natural

would seem to indicate that you already know the answer. So making out will definitely lead to sex at some point unless you are very, very good at self-restraint. Take it from a guy who is older and been down that path: eventually you will probably give in once, and then when you have sex you will enjoy it so much that you won't want to stop.

Focus on finding your mission, there are two posts on the Sidebar, #209 and #210, that will help you discover it and live it out.

Apart from that, you need to make a decision:

keep going the way you're going, and eventually fail
stop trying to live for God and live like the world instead
live for God, find your Mission, and ask God to bring you the right woman to marry so you can channel that sexual energy into a wet and willing wife. Christian Plate Spinning, Finding the Girl You Can't Keep Yourself From Banging Part 1, and Finding the Girl You Can't Keep Yourself From Banging - PART 2! are good posts that will help you with this. Obviously this is the option I'm going to recommend.

It's not easy to live for God in today's world. You have to be very intentional about it. Decide that first, and He will help you with the rest.

WarriorJesus1915 · 2018-12-26T15:06:07+00:00

Did you even read the rules for posting? Or very briefly skim the sidebar?

Deep_Strength · 2018-12-26T15:38:58+00:00

Yes, it is a sin to "hook up."

Galatians 5:16** But I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not carry out the desire of the flesh. 17 For the flesh sets its desire against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh; for these are in opposition to one another, so that you may not do the things that you please. 18 But if you are led by the Spirit, you are not under the Law. 19 Now the deeds of the flesh are evident, which are: **immorality, impurity, sensuality, 20 idolatry, sorcery, enmities, strife, jealousy, outbursts of anger, disputes, dissensions, factions, 21 envying, drunkenness, carousing, and things like these, of which I forewarn you, just as I have forewarned you, that those who practice such things will not inherit the kingdom of God. 22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 23 gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law. 24 Now those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires.

Live a life of chastity for God, and if your sexual desire is too much consider getting married.

1 Corinthians 7:8 But I say to the unmarried and to widows that it is good for them if they remain even as I (Single and chaste). 9 But if they do not have self-control, let them marry; for it is better to marry than to burn with passion.

Also, make sure you have a mission for God you are working on to give you focus and purpose.

RedPillCoach · 2018-12-27T17:51:51+00:00

Well, Solomon had 800 wives and 1300 women who he just slept with and the Bible describes this as "Solomon's Blessing." Of course it is a warning as well because all these women 'turned his heart away from the Lord.'

All of the Paulinist proto-incel writings need to be taken in context. Paul was very clear when he was speaking with authority from God and when he was giving his own opinions. Modern Christians like to take all of the passages where Paul clearly said he was giving his opinion and not guided by the Holy Spirit and make them Red Letter rules. I don't believe they are always so clear- but that is just my opinion as I have no specific guidance from the Holy Spirit on these matters and write by my own authority as one who has in the past received the gift of insight.

So, IMHO, kissing, making out touching, whatever, is absolutely, 100% NOT sin. The Bible is clear that the sin is intercourse with a married woman. This is called "adultery" and it is very bad.

However, there is not a scrap of Scripture that orders us to refrain from kissing or touching potential future partners who are not married.

In fact, the clear order of Scripture is to be fruitful and multiply. The Blue Pill mindset that permeates the Churchians today and trains young men to hate and fear their bodies and their natural, god-given sexuality is counter to the most basic command that God gave us!

ikeurbantraut · 2018-12-26T15:27:05+00:00

19 as well, Christian, and I make out with chicks all the time. Be less legalistic, just don’t carry it too far.

I know what you mean about the energy, you just feel like a wild man and you know the girls can feel that too.

Kiss them good, it’s only a sin to have actual sex because it’s a spiritual thing where you become “married” and then in hookup culture of course you get “married” and go your separate ways

Kiss em all😂

Title	is a sin to hook up?
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Date	December 26, 2018 2:25 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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