21 YO Virgin

andrew_little1 · 2019-12-26T04:34:47+00:00

Well you’re addicted to porn, no wonder you haven’t gotten laid. Once you quit the porn you will actually pursue women, since you’re not getting a release through a screen (this really messes up you’re dopamine btw).

Quit the porn. Read some books. Go talk to some women, you’re in college, they are EVERYWHERE.

AscensionExperiments · 2019-12-26T04:40:53+00:00

I’m addicted to porn,

Well, stop being addicted to porn. You know it's a problem, so fix it you fucking idiot

’m a self diagnosed bipolar narcissist

That's also fucking stupid. If it's a real diagnosis then meds can help, self-diagnosing is bullshit anyway

You also aren't really asking a question, what do you want? Advice on getting laid? It's the sidebar. duh

dingleburry_joe · 2019-12-26T06:35:19+00:00

Change your mentality son, your are worth it

Nothing in life comes easy

Make it a goal and dont pay for that shit or I'm gonna haunt your ass for eternity in the seventh layer of hell where you will have to suck my dick as I please

LeatherBoundWisdom · 2019-12-26T07:29:00+00:00

I was a 20 year old virgin, probably could have got an aspergers diagnosis in my teens. After reading a bunch of rp literature and dicking around for 8 months, I started lifting, cold approaching, and was strict with nofap. 3 months later I fucked a girl I approached clubbing in Canada. I'm now the guy that talks to everyone, body count is 4 - so a ways to go. Implement the red pill; it will happen for you too. Drop the porn, cold approach as often as you can and constantly improve/experiment.

Maybe you'll be creepy or pathetic or whatever right now, but after some hard work when you have social skills and pussy and don't ask yourself every day "what the fuck is wrong with me", no one will remember and you will be glad you conquered those fears.

TehJimmyy · 2019-12-26T12:58:23+00:00

Yo buddy i am 22 computer engineering student close to getting my diploma after 5 years in college and still havent got a lay yet. I am also addicted to porn since 11 and i like to weightlift since trp and now i am close to my goal ( 24% to 12% bodyfat). I am very happy with my body.

My childhood was not the best and i am also an introvert. I am fighting hard to get porn out of my system and start cold approaching and get my ego out of the way. That should be a good goal for 2020. Pm me if you wanna talk further. Good luck

RacistMuffin · 2019-12-26T05:27:31+00:00

It seems as though you lack redpill knowledge. First read the redpill side bar and you will learn that you are breaking so many fundamentals.

First is porn. Porn is fine imo, but don't overdo it. I only watch porn when I'm platespinning or have a women I can conveniently fuck. Also, you are breaking the rules of self-development just because you can't get laid? If this sub has truly helped you, you will learn that sex is not that god all-mighty thing. Work on improving yourself and try cold approaching before you get to the sex part. It seems you lack confidence and the ability to talk to women which is often the root of being a virgin.

E9er · 2019-12-26T06:02:14+00:00

hahaah you sound pathetic which is rough because if you really understood TRP you would realize you shouldn’t be if you’re doing it right. but you’re probably not since you’re valuing pussy more than your life... and that’s not cool your life>your goals>women should be at the bottom something extra not your primary! but since you’re desperate just get a hooker so you can bust your nut and clear your head off and stop with the whining and start with a fresh mind to actually get girls! desperation is a bad smell girls avoid!!! just get it over man buy some ousts! then when ready! porn addict or not start talking to girls about anything just to be comfortable around them! hopefully if your still pussy deprived and fucking hookers you’ll realize porn just doesn’t cut it anymore it’s boring and hearing a bitch moan your name in real life is the only way then you will begin to be more bold and remember these girls you were talking to? yeah now you’re gonna wanna go fuck them and start putting real effort to getting pussy! build rapport demonstrate confidence in yourself with your life goals! ask them out to lunch dinner drinks w.e then sell yourself and why you’re an alpha if you are they will give you positive iOi and you can begin to close and get pussy! follow these step and you’ll get somewhere if not idk man you don’t really want pussy and just want to cry about it!

modern_soma · 2019-12-27T06:34:11+00:00

Intelligent person with a massive - but fragile - ego channels his energy into lifting and education/career goals to feel better than other people, deeply craving human contact. Too bad the ego repels everyone so he fills the void with internet pornography. I may or may not have described myself there, but i'll definitely tell you that once you have sex you'll realize that the only reason you wanted it was for power/validation to fuel the ego, and then you'll feel empty again. The solution? Genuine relationships, built through a common goal/struggle. Are you solo studying for all your engineering classes? My cohort always had a large study group (relatively small engineering major) and I made friends through that.

xX-Noxxs-Xx · 2019-12-26T18:26:28+00:00

Look into nofap on youtube it will hely you withe the porn addiction

Title	21 YO Virgin
Author	Dos_Shepard
Upvotes	0
Comments	24
Date	December 26, 2019 4:27 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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