Hello, yesterday I went out with my gf and she got quite hammered. To the point where I was actually embarassed, this was the first time she met my friends. My friends girlfriends were all well composed and did not drink much at all.

My gf would not stop talking to people (sorry talking at people is probably more suitable, since she doesnt even hear their replies or give them an opportunity to talk), she would just talk about herself forever (it made me cringe). She looked like a complete idiot, to the point that people from other tables would laugh as well. She also said things that partly offended me, like not bringing her own wallet (she did not have a bag) and then asking me for money in front of my friends, then also jokes like “i am with you just for the money”. We actually split finances well so I know thats not the case, and today she is paying me back for the drinks she bought. I did not get butthurt and answered well to the shittests, but still.. is this who I want as a ltr?

I believe these traits show some kind of narcissistic disorder and I am wondering if I should soft next her. My friends all had well composed girls, reserved and so on.

What are your opinions? Also how can I bring it up with her?