Only recently have i reached a point in my personal growth that im spinning multiple plates but because its all relatively new to me, im in a situation that ive never been in before.

I have multiple plates and to each and every one of them i make clear that im not thinking about marriage (lol) or even a serious relationship until im 30 (26 now). Im loud and clear about this, and completly genuine about it because i want to become a next level version of myself before destracting myself with that shit. theyre all fine with it (and somehow i feel like it makes them want me more) but one plate of mine has a different personality from my others and its showing recently.

Shes sweet, submissive, caring, cooks me food before and after i nut and brings it to bed, buys me presents (she recently got me a drone), basically does anything i want and beyond that.

However, altough I adore the effort she puts in, my mentality hasnt changed. I absolutely dont want anything with her, or any woman, beyond what we have already and recently its becoming problematic with her. Since we’re in the same district of the city, she sometimes sees me with other girls. She told me a few days ago that this bothers her. Shes been telling me that she misses me lately because i’ve been busy. Sending me multiple hearts and shit through text telling me to have a good night. Shes also trying to see me more lately. Basically, im pretty sure shes falling in love with me and pushing for exclusive status.

Im thinking of nexting her. Like i said, i truely adore the qualities shes been showing me but i dont want anything beyond a plate status and shes pushing for the next level. Even then, my other plates are way more fun personality wise so i rather spend my spare time with them. I can shit talk them and they laugh, if im bored I can take them on fun physical activities like hiking or swimming if my buddies are occupied. I enjoy their fun personalities way more, sex with them is better, and they also seem to respect the boundaries i set so basically i prioritize them if i have some spare time.

So how do i next this one plate gently? Like i said, she has been genuinely great for me but i dont like the falling in love part and her pretty boring personality. I feel like the best part has expired by now. TRP has really brought me forward in life and brought me to a spot i couldnt imagine as a friendzoned teenager. But one thing i never agreed on was the indiscriminate ruthlessness that some members have here when it comes to dealing with women. While AWALT is a real thing in the end because of human nature, I still think that every person has a different personality and there are different ways of dealing with them, especially if they have been good to you. I want to get rid of this plate but would feel bad if i did it in a rough manner after all the extra miles and gifts that she gave me.

Basically, how do i next this plate in the most humane way possible?