What to do when they flip the problem on you

Red_Pill_Brotherhood · 2020-01-06T21:49:20+00:00

"Stop trying to blame shift it back to me." and then withdrawal your time and attention.

AscensionExperiments · 2020-01-06T21:46:23+00:00

It's a standard shit test dude. Sidebar

2030isCloserThan2003 · 2020-01-07T00:50:10+00:00

Call them out on their immature bullshit for trying to flip it back to u, instead of taking responsibility for their own action, & then ignore after that.

oooKenshiooo · 2020-01-07T01:22:12+00:00

Correctly assigning blame in an argument is next level shit for LTRs.

Making a women own up to her faults by coherently disecting the situation at hand takes a lot of time and energy - the kind of time and energy you only invest into LTR prospects aka women who you pre qualified and who is actually interested in personal growth and a productive solution.

Women shit test you by luring you into these kind sof arguments without them being properly qualified for said time and energy. It's a both a shit test and a ploy to extract resources.

So, if she is a plate or below, you best respond the following way:

"Stop shifting the blame and own your shit, I don't have time for this."

And then be actually busy. Switch off your phone and hit the gym. Waiting for a response like a lapdog ain't gonna cut it.

RPNorvell · 2020-01-07T10:32:08+00:00

It's called a pressure flip and her using it on you means you're the loser in the conversation.

skuttt · 2020-01-07T14:43:49+00:00

If she starts the argument you AA out of it. If you start it and she pressure flips, then you picked a bad time and did it wrong.

When’s a good time? I don’t know tbh, if I ever figure it out I’ll let you know.

If I had to guess I’d say when she’s otherwise super happy with the relationship and cuddled up. Then you approach it gently.

Domebeers · 2020-01-06T22:14:48+00:00

why are you confronting a womans behaviour, just leave

Title	What to do when they flip the problem on you
Author	jaxkhk
Upvotes	2
Comments	9
Date	January 6, 2020 9:45 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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