Please help me

AnotherWildling · 2020-01-08T19:40:55+00:00

I’m so sorry to hear you’re suffering. You sound like you are depressed. Have you thought about getting professional help?

I’m in no way trying to minimise the circumstances that made you turn to TRP but with all the self loathing you describe it can be hard to bring up the energy to do something about it.

Like getting a job or an education, you say you’re too lazy. I don’t believe you are. I believe your depression is zapping all your energy.

You might need medication and also of course to talk to someone professionally.

All luck and strength and love to you!

pastadedientes · 2020-01-08T21:35:13+00:00

Hi, I want to help you, and I'm so sad to hear that you're feeling that bad. I hope you will still reading my comment even if I'm a 19 years old woman.

I know how the brain washing works. If you go to r/bluepill or read more posts about ex red pillers you will see that that kind of cult is always chasing low self esteem men. It happens with all the cults, the less self esteem they have (doesn't matter the gender), the easier they are for recruiting.

My advice is not to read those cult posts that shows all women as devils, and if you do, please question everything. Think: there are billions of women in the world, do you really think that they are the "problem", like redpillers are trying to convince you? You're just 19. I have know men that are "handsome" (with "" because it's something subjective) and they still without a partner. And most of men that are in their 30 and have never had a partner it's because we, women, are now more aware about what a toxic relationship is. But those toxic men prefer to blame women and are so selfish that they would never think that the real problem are them.

Yes, there are some women that date men only if they are "handsome" and have money. And some of those women end up in a toxic relationship because they ignored the signs about how shitty those men were, and those men also looks for "pretty" women that only wanted them for the money.

And these are some women,like me, that doesn't mind about the face nor the money. Maybe you don't have talents, but if you have a good heart, I know you will find, not only a woman, but many, who will want to be with you. There are billions of women in the world.

I don't think you're a loser. I think you're going through a lot of sadness that makes you think you are a loser, and that feeling is making you living with a school bag full of bricks in your back.

Maybe you think you don't have talents, but I'm sure you have interest. You can seek for professional help, I'm not saying you're mad or something, a therapist isn't just for trouble-minded people, they also can help you to improve your personality and help you to socialize. Socializing will open you a door not only full of opportunities, but also will fill your life with all kind of experiences.

I hope my comment helped.

[deleted] · 2020-01-08T19:51:10+00:00

HI JOHN GALT, I AM FROM INDIA , EX REDPILLER .LET ME TELL YOU QUIT RIGHT NOW ! STOP WATCHING THOSE REDPILL VIDEOS OR ARTICLES

SECONDLY YOU ARE NOT A LOSER , BRO BELIEVE ME I HAVE SEEN PEOPLE THROUGH WORST

THIRDLY YEAH WHAT WHAT REDPILL SAYS IS MANIPULATION, TOXIC AND INHUMAN BEHAVIOUR

LET ME TELL YOU BEFORE YOU START TO THINK THAT RED PILL PHILOSOPHISES ARE RIGHT, ALWAYS THINK ABOUT YOUR MOM ALWAYS! THE FEMALES THAT BULLIED YOU ARE JERKS !AND YEAH YIOU MUST BE UGLY(ONLY IF YOU BELIEVE THAT {FOR ME , UGLY IS SOMEONE WHO STAYS AT HOME ALL DAY ,EATS SHIT,DOES NOTHING AND THEN CRIES ABOUT IT } SO MY LOVING BROTHER YOU ARE NOT UGLY , YOU ARE JUST LAZY ,START WORKING OUT ,EAT GOOD ,HANGOUT WITH SOME GOOD FRIENDS (IF YOU DONT HAVE ,LEARN TO SOCIALISE )

AND WHAT REDPILLS SAYS IS RIGHT, GIRLS DO GET ATTRACTED BY LOOKS , JUST THE SAME WAY WE GUYS ARE ATTRACTED TO GOOD LOOKS (SEE HOW SIMILAR BUT REDPILL TEACHES THAT ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT)NO WE HUMANS ARE LIKE THAT., REGARDING GIRLS THAT ARE ATTRACTED TO MONEY THEY ARE NOTHING BUT CHARACTERLESS

AND BELIEVE ME PLEASE I BEG YOU, DONT FOLLOW REDPILL IT WILL BE DISASTROUS(I MYSELF EXPERIENCED IT) I DEVELOPED TRUST ISSUES , ATTACHMENT ISSUES , ALSO ANXIETY DISORDER AND BELIEVE ME THAT WAS THE WORST PHASE OF MY LIFE

BUT THERE'S SOME LITTLE GOOD THINGS THAT REDPILL GAVE ME ,THE CONFIDENCE , WILLING TO STEP OUT OF THE COMFORT ZONE, WORKING OUT.BASICALLY IT JUST GAVE ME THE CONFIDENCE , WHICH YOU WILL EVENTUALLY DEVELOP (AND GET THIS IS IN MIND NOT EVERY GIRL IS GOING TO LIKE YOU ,JUST LIKE YOU WONT LIKE EVERY GIRL)AND IN THE SECOND PLACE , DONT CHANGE HOW YOU ARE FOR THE SAKE OF ATTRACTING GIRLS (ITS STUPID AF )WHY WOULD YOU WANNA BE ANYONE WHO DOESNT LIKE HOW YOU ARE (BUT THATS JUST ONE MORE BULLSHIT REDPILL TEACHES S) TO GAME EVERY GIRL (WHEN THEY ARE HUMANS JUST LIKE US )

SO IN CONCLUSION MY ADVICE TO YOU IS GET OFF THE INTERNET (NOT LIKE STOP USING IT) GO OUT SOCIALISE , START WORKING OUT(IMPROVE YOUR BODY), ABOUT FACE , APPLY SOME PRODUCTS ON IT , CARE FOR IT , SEE UNDERSTAND THAT CRYING ABOUT WHAT YOU CANT CHANGE IS NOT GONNA MAKE ANYTHING BETTER , JUST IMPROVE AND UNDERSTAND THE FACT THAT NOT EVERY GIRL IS GONNA LIKE YOU AND THATS OKAY ,( I ONCE GOT REJECTED BY 8 GIRLS BEFORE I DATED 4 ABSOLUTE CHEERFUL , GOOD GIRLS ) ITS LIFE MAN , EVEN THE MOST GOOD LOOKING DUDES GET REJECTED , ,START ENJOYING LIFE

OTHER THAN THIS IF YOU NEED ANY OTHER ADVICE , PLEASE LOOK UP TO ME I WILL HELP YOU BRO

ro8e · 2020-01-10T13:19:03+00:00

Just so you know, you don't find or be born with a talent - it's a cultivated skill which takes time and "practice makes perfect".

We ourselves give life a meaning. I'm closer to mid 20s and still haven't given meaning to my life. For now my purpose is bettering myself and trying to find some stability.

I think a vocational school would be the best choice for you (so you don't get into a debt, have some financial stability and more chance to get experience) and finding a therapist who you can work on and discuss your behavioural patterns and worries. Going to the university just because isn't a good idea, trust me.

Maybe I'll sound condescending, but you're still young with a lot of experiences before you.

I also advice you to go to search for the "first aid kit for exredpillers" on this sub and visit r/menslib for support.

coastsider__ · 2020-01-11T03:21:49+00:00

I used to feel similarly. Now my life is better than I could have ever possibly been. Can I please help you? I've struggled with mental health in many ways. DM me for my phone number or email.

Hellion_shark · 2020-01-13T03:21:21+00:00

You sound like you have depression, tbh. Maybe look into that, cause it gets worse when unchecked, but it can be healed. Robert Sappolsky has a very good lecture about the subject, scientific and yet not too complicated. It's called Depression in America. With that said you are young and have had experience with young women. People at that age are often assholes. It's like a person's empathy truly develops after 25 Haha. And women are often thought to treat badly man who make advances on them. That combined with immaturity is just shitty.

willyj19 · 2020-01-17T10:27:43+00:00

Embrace the black pill

Title	Please help me
Author	Who_Is_JohnGalt_2
Upvotes	2
Comments	7
Date	January 7, 2020 9:53 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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