I (32/m) had sex with my beloved wife (28/f) on one occasion this January. It was good, powerful and passionate. For more than 1 week: Nothing. No long kisses, no intimate action. We have touched the topic of BDSM some time ago. Some submissive blowjobs with lipstick occured. I just don't see a real submissive focus on her side. She even giggles when I try to be dominant (which ist no big thing, I like it to be funny). I really miss the true sexual tension of dominance and submission. She also does not swallow or encourages anal.

What can I do? Prepare the perfect session? Surprise her with a kinky message?

All the best