Fictions portraying women saving a male damsel isn't inherently a non red pilled thing.

Is shows that women have to make sacrifices in relationships to help men. Having a wife willing to save you from danger is redpilled. Don't get me wrong though, I wouldn't want to put myself in a bad situation where my wife needs to step in.

But if a woman is able to help her husband out of a bad situation without losing respect for him that's a sign of good character.