2015 is barely halfway through it, yet there are some things that I've noticed more so then ever before. This may be obvious to some but has become more apparent to me.

I live in the UK, if you are curious. So this applies to Western World:

  1. Almost every girl I know has had a one night stand - From a plate, to a friend, a cousin. 90% have all had ONS's. They've all admitted it, or to a friend or whatever. Its virtually impossible to find a woman that hasn't.

  2. Serial Dating - I have noticed girls will go on a couple dates with you, just for the sake of it. You can pull them, fuck em, whatever but they have their little mini relationship in their heads, and then ghost. More and more women are serial daters nowadays. They get the attention, a meal out, a nice spoon, a fuck, a cinema, whatever, and then they go off into the oblivion. Its fine for me, as these girls have serious motherfucking flaws.

  3. The most shocking of realizations you'll ever read (again you may already know this) I'll compare this to my friend

My friend and I have been casually hitting a few bars over the last 6 months. He is goodlooking, game is okish, in shape and cool guy. He often hits on women. He has given his number out countless amounts of times, women have given him theirs, and so on. He also has a weird fantasy for milfs over 45. Its quite nasty as theyre not even hot. In that period, he has slept with 3 milfs and one plate he knew from school. ZERO of the women he's met in these bars who were very attractive that he's exchanged numbers with have met him, dated him, and have ALL fizzled out.

Take me. I use Tinder, and randomly add girls on social media. I have gotten more numbers then him, dated far more, and slept with 4 times the amount he has.

The realization? Women are more likely to meet, suck and fuck a stranger off the internet/dating app then someone they meet in person.

There is no harm hitting on girls in bars, but I honestly think the way the world is these days you're better off doing it that way. As I said, they are more likely to meet you based on a picture of you looking good then you standing in front of you.

Sad times, but true.