Do you guys use hinge when not looking for a LTR?

berttbeans996 · 2020-10-05T19:18:51+00:00

So you're telling me this person is a complete stranger to you and rather than dating and/or sleeping together to see if you're compatible, they already have a magical relationship coupon because you "connected" on X app instead of Y app. It's all the same and women will always complain about men, who gives a fook.

jacques_cousteau007 · 2020-10-05T19:10:41+00:00

Relationships should be earned.

If you’re truly high SMV they should consider themselves lucky to have a chance to audition

Your job is to vet.

Psychological_Radish · 2020-10-05T20:01:55+00:00

I just got on Hinge not long ago. Was hoping for more of a solid FWB instead of the typical Tinder fuck and chuck so I decided to give it a go with a cute girl from there.

We met, we clicked really well, she invited me back to her place and we fucked. And of course I never heard from her again when I messaged a few days later. It's all the same...girls make noises about "looking for a relationship" but if they see a hot piece of man meat all of that goes out the window. Hypergamy doesn't care that Hinge was "designed to be deleted."

More to the point, though, "looking for a LTR" is a stupid idea to begin with. One doesn't look for a relationship; it's a natural byproduct when you find a person that you have fun with and who's a good fit.

berttbeans996 · 2020-10-05T19:20:51+00:00

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Protocol_Apollo · 2020-10-05T21:21:08+00:00

feel a sense of guilt when using Hinge because its geared toward relationships.

Ive seen posts on the hinge subreddit of women complaining that guys use it for hooking up when its for relationships.

This is the problem.

Would they feel guilt for you? Would they feel guilty for being taken on dates without putting out?
Hinge is more plausible deniability than it is for relationships. Tinder is too obvious as an hookup now (doesn’t stop them from employing a myriad of ways to hamster this away).
Women have agency, they aren’t as much of a victim as they seem.

They complain guys use it for hooking up, but guess what...they chose to hookup with the guys.

They chose to hookup with guys and then get surprised he pumps and dumps them and then cry “muhh it’s unfair, hinge is a relationships app!”

dairynty · 2020-10-11T23:18:20+00:00

I've used Hinge for about 6 months and it's been the most successful dating app I've used with higher quality girls. Hinge has this notion that its used for relationship type of people and that's somewhat true compared to other apps from my experience but you'll still find hook ups.

berttbeans996 · 2020-10-05T19:34:20+00:00

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Title	Do you guys use hinge when not looking for a LTR?
Author	berttbeans996
Upvotes	7
Comments	21
Date	October 5, 2020 7:00 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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