Is depression a red flag?

2020-10-05T19:26:17+00:00

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W_O_M_B_A_T · 2020-10-05T19:15:16+00:00

Is she taking medication and attends therapy at least 2x a year?

If so, then continue vetting her carefully.

If she's not taking medication, beware. Be very aware.

If she seems great one day, goes silent for two days, then starts getting demanding or needy, attention seeking and low key criticizing shit, the next day, don't stick your dick in unstable BPD chicks.

Snowboard18 · 2020-10-05T19:30:22+00:00

I swear some dudes on this sub don’t know how to use their brain at all lol

Yes it’s a red flag, you can’t help her and she’ll drag you down with her. Hard next this bitch.

And she’ll play the “I’m going to kill myself if u do X” manipulation bullshit

Musicgoon · 2020-10-05T20:08:04+00:00

Look if you're down and she's depressed as well it's going to drop you further. Someone needs to be the upbeat person.

She will blame you eventually for not being her rock. And her depression will be your fault. Avoid chronically depressed women. They won't appreciate happiness or self improvement.

IXseed · 2020-10-05T20:59:20+00:00

The last thing you should be doing is you're that far down is deal with women.

rpbb9999 · 2020-10-05T21:52:56+00:00

Go for it, sounds like you have a lot in common

Joe_Doblow · 2020-10-06T00:13:07+00:00

Hell yea!

comcain · 2020-10-06T03:09:29+00:00

This is a black flag, so bad you should spray her with bug repellant. Stay away for pete's sakes.

Title	Is depression a red flag?
Author	PsychologicalChair88
Upvotes	2
Comments	14
Date	October 5, 2020 7:04 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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