Your words are your nails and your voice is your hammer. Each sentence uttered lays down another part of the frame you expect her to be in. With skill and care, you build a frame from which she cannot escape, from which she does not want to escape, from which she will beg you to put her back in. This is the Fun Command method for hypnotic sex.

You've all been there. At the level of thinking, 'oh my god, this girl actually wants to do what I tell her to do. Hold on let me try this'. "Hey babe. Come here. Kiss me." 'Holy fuck she actually bought it. It actually works. Fuck that's cool. Now I wonder if I can just tell her to suck my dick?'

The answer is yes, obviously, but you have to bring her there. You have to demonstrate your awareness of her level of arousal through the style and details of the instructions you utter. But it really is just a matter of fundamentals and like anything else, if you keep it cocky and funny, she will love it.

When you decide that you're going to use your verbal skills in order to command her to have sex, there's a moment of 'oh my god, is she going to go with this next command?'. In those cases, back off a little bit. Think of a much less intense command. Something that makes you feel comfortable. The commands you use want to have the effect of simultaneously making you feel powerful and in control - while making her feel fully taken care of and like you are the "captain" of the experience. Each command you give allows her the opportunity to drop more into the sexual, submissive frame she craves to be in.

Steps of the method:

1. Establish what you're doing

2. Establish how you and she feel about it

3. Establish what's going to happen next

4. Command her

It's that simple. Just put that on repeat.

You establish these things through your actions and words. In this method, primary attention is given to use of your voice. The words you use, the timing and the rhythm of the words, the emotional content they cary, they should all come off sounding strong, polished, confident and entertained.

The importance of body language

I have used this method to instruct girls exactly how to suck my cock without me lifting a finger. The only extent to which I used my body at all was to modulate my breathing and the tension in my body. If you want her to think you're getting really turned on, all you have to do is inhale sharply, close your eyes a little bit, lean back and hold you're breath. Other times, when making a corrective action, I'll actually physically correct her. "No no. I want you to suck my cock right now", I'll say. "Okay" she says, looking up at me and smiling devilishly, stalling. "C'mon, I say", my voice indicating irritation with her stalling. I grab her by the head and take physical control. "I said I want you. to. suck. my cock." (Forcibly jerking her around with each word uttered, deep throating her cruelly with the last sentence. She gags, chokes and coughs, and then gets to work)

Here are some lines that I have found work as "go to" statements and commands. They are easy to think of, to say, and to keep her on track:

Wait. Stop. Hold on. Wait a second. Here, I want you to do something. I'll tell you what I'm going to do. This is what's going to happen next. Okay, now I want you to... Here, try this. Lick this. Kiss that. Grab my cock. Put it in your mouth. Oh wow, you are such a good cock sucker. You are such a good fucking cock sucker. You are so good at sucking cock. You little slut. You are such a good little slut, aren't you? You love sucking the cock, don't you? Now stroke it. Come here, you stupid bitch. Take it. Suck it.

I find that as I get hornier and more turned on, I naturally get more aggressive and I feel compelled to call her slightly nastier and kinkier and what would otherwise be more insulting names. In the heat of the moment, however, you are effectively giving her permission to be the naughty sex kitten she really wants to be.

At the same time, you'll notice that the commands and statements are all incredibly short. This is important. Brevity implies that you don't need to say a lot to get what you want. It communicates that you are a powerful and effective communicator. I remember during my Physical Training (PT) with the ROTC recruits (I wasn't actually ROTC but that's another story), the kids learned to use commands to command the entire group, to take control of every movement of every person in that group. As a member of the group, it was kind of cool being like, "oh shit, I don't get to decide what I'm going to do with my body. I just have to listen to the commands". And then it became so painfully clear how poorly worded commands delivered with low confidence or with ambiguity made you just judge the person so badly. However, the interesting thing to note is that no matter how much they'd fucked up in the past. All they need was a couple of good strong commands, given and complied to in quick succession, before your smirkiness evaporated and you were back to, "oh right. I'm not in control. They are".

Another thing to keep in mind when formulating your commands and statements is the progression. Here's an example of using progression:

Tell her to kiss your ears first. Tell her it feels good. Grab her by the neck and forcibly kiss her. Then shove her head away (push pull). Tell her to kiss your neck. Tell her to kiss your clavicle. Tell her to kiss your nipples, and to suck them. Then, sit up and toss her back and suck the shit out of her nipples. Bite them gently with your teeth. Gently caress the nip with your tongue. Then slap your hands across them, like a fore-hand tennis swing, Make the nipples hurt a bit with the soreness. Now lie back and tell her, "now take my pants off". "Now kiss my hip." "Grab my shaft." "Good girl. Good girl. That feels good. Okay. Put it in your mouth".

The final step in the method: Frame what happened

After some of my hypnotic sex experiences, I'll try to give the hamster a little rationalization assist. I don't want the girl leaving and thinking that she just got used and abused. I want her to think, "Holy shit that was intense and awesome experience." In order to get her thinking along those lines I'll come up with a clever command, something like. "Holy shit that was intense." (pause) "And Awesome." (laughs genuinely).

If you didn't pick up the irony in that last sentence, then here's the translation: you do not want to be fucking clever. You can be clever in your own mind, sure. But you want her to perceive you as being fully in the moment and authentic, full commander and narrator of the frame she finds herself in. Fully authentic. Try not to fake any emotion. Try to powerfully communicate what you're feeling, what you want her to do, and that you expect her to do it. That's the gist of it. An example of framing what happened:

Her: "Yeah. Wow, that was intense. My jaw is sore"

You: "You're really good at sucking cock."

Her: Blushes.

You: "I love your hair. Let me see it"

You bunch it up, and start manipulating her head this way and that.

You: "Fuck it. Suck it again. Real quick"

Force her down onto your cock.

You: "Haha. Okay. We're done now. That was fun"

Her: "Yeah. That was fun. Thanks"

You: "You're welcome."

You slap her firmly, gently on the face and then pull hard on her ear. She purrs.

Okay, now go out there and give some women some amazing sex experiences they'll never forget. Oh yeah, and get your cock sucked.