INTRODUCTION:

Outcome independence (OI) is one of the terms which go under the radar when it comes to the sidebar material. Especially when a unplugging male comes to the realisation of TRP. Abundance mentality, scarcity, this and that. People 'get' that. Still, there is huge number of questions popping out about females flaking, trying to rationalize reasons why xy female did this or that. Instead, one should dig deep in OI.

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BODY:

I see a lot of guys get razzled dazzled when women flake on them. Especially when it comes to this COVID time, flake rates are higher than ever.

Men will tend to ask a lot of questions, as most of them will include the question word 'Why?' Why she did this, why she did that, why, why why.

You should not ask yourself any of those questions. Why does not matter. You can not control outer input but you can control your mind. Thoughts and reactions. The thing you should ask yourself is 'Does this thing matter to me? Can I change something about the income?'

This is appliable to everything in life. But when it comes to this context, context of male to female dynamic, you should literally enjoy flaking. I know it sounds counterintuitiative but...Flaking is part of female nature. They will just switch on and off in a second. You can not change that. It is what it is.

I am not saying that you should tolerate it. Not at all. What I am saying is that you should not stress yourself with why questions. It is just my view point and experience but when someone flakes on me, I just hard next. I don't give a fck did her grandma died or any other shit. But I am actually happy that I got rid of just another trash on my way.

Here comes OI. You schedule a date. Get flaked. You have your life in place. You planned to take her to the club with good music. Good. Now you can fully enjoy the good music.

You planned to take her to a restoraunt? Good. Now you can fully enjoy the food.

You are aware of female nature. You are not mad. You are thankfull because she disqualified herself and did not waste her time. You won't reach out again. If she wants second try? She better jump those loops.

You continue enjoying your evening.

YOUR evening should be fun and YOU should be having fun.

Noticed how I did not mention her anywhere near?

It is because your happy evening should not depend whethere a female or anyone else is there.

You should be able to be happy alone and with the situation you are currently in, regardles the curcumstances.

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CONCLUSION:

As always women should never ever be focus of your life. Women is just addition to a life well lived. Do not try to 'understand' women. Just live your life. Be aware of the flip-floppy female mindset. Embrace it.

Enjoy the process.

Enjoy being flaked. Literally enjoy being flaked. They dodged a bullet for you. And just do whatever you were planning to do, anyway.