Background: 24 yo Pakistani- Canadian. Live with parents.

I met a girl (7.5) online through okc. Met at the mall and got drinks a few weeks ago. Didn't k-close but was able to demonstrate high SMV and I really took control of our time together.

Anyways, I texted her a few days ago asking her if she wanted to check out a bar near my place Friday. She agrees to come over after work and we'll head down together. By some miracle, everyone in my house was planning on being away for the weekend so I had the place to myself. She agreed on a sleepover and came over. The main key here is I acted like I didn't give a fuck the whole time. The whole time I was with her it was with the thought that it wasn't a big deal, even though I've never done something like this before. We went out Friday, had some drinks, walked through a haunted trail, kissed and went back to my place.

We get in bed, I put on a movie and she's really sleepy. Granted she worked a long shift and came straight to my house after work. I continue escalating but she won't let me go near her tits or let me finger her. At one point she stops mid makeout and says "you're not getting laid tonight" I answer with a simple "ok" and continue escalating then pull back for a bit.

We went to sleep for a while then woke up and I started escalating again. Still nothing. Then we have the following convo which throws me off:

Her: Are you looking for FWB?

Me: No I don't like that term

Her: Do you have sex with other girl friends?

Me: Yes

Her: I'm not a fwb. I don't have sex outside of relationships

Me: That's alright

We lie next to each other for a bit with my hand on her ass. Doesn't escalate then it's time for her to go home so she gets changed and leaves.

Any word on what may have happened? Did I handle her shit test properly?

The interesting part is I truly don't care if I see her again. Just looking to reflect for the future. I'm thinking later if we have the discussion again I'll tell her I don't like rushing into relationships and we should see where it goes.

I'm thinking she'll give in before I do. We talked a lot about sex and about how we may be sexually compatible so she definitely wants sex way more than I want a relationship. Any thoughts or suggestions?

Also: The reason I mentioned my age, race and living situation is because a lot of the shit on TRP has been guys complaining about limitations. While I will say it is obviously harder out there for Asians/ Indians/ etc. It's not impossible. High SMV is high SMV no matter what. Just don't be your stereotype and you'll be fine.