Is it a shit test or a rejection?

Jiu-Jitsu-addict · 2020-10-27T21:29:48+00:00

She just said "yes" and that's it? She ain't interested. Wait for her to contact you and if she doesn't, find a plate that is interested. Never chase a woman. Let them chase you

se_anz · 2020-10-27T21:27:06+00:00

You’re really overthinking this. She’s just busy instead of asking if she’s busy a certain day word it more like “when are you free?”

spaceshiftin · 2020-10-27T21:30:05+00:00

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Mindful_Stoic81 · 2020-10-27T21:35:13+00:00

You want it to be a shit test so bad but it is not lol

Also who do want to hard next ? Are you together already ? If not then she is the one hard nexting you.

Her interest isn't high, maybe not even there, otherwise she would at least answer with a "why". She doesn't even care to ask that.

Take your L it is fine and learn to be more assertive, don't ask a woman if she is free, read the side bar carefully and throughly and apply it next time.

Jiu-Jitsu-addict · 2020-10-27T21:46:40+00:00

Wait to see if she contacts you. If you reply again without her replying, especially after a one word response "yes" your setting yourself up for failure with this broad. Your giving her power from the get go. She is going to look at you like your desperate and needy. Never give these broads power. If she don't respond that's great, there are literally billions of other broads on this planet and others who will respond back and value your time. Western women are so messed up. Social media and beta simps have fueled their ego's so bad. Don't let any women have you as a second option. Never validate them. Even in a LTR, save your validation and compliments sparingly. Never put them on a pedestal. Treat them like a celebrity and they will treat you like a fan. Don't be a dickhead, but keep that masculine frame and never let these cunts throw you off your center and get you emotional

IXseed · 2020-10-28T00:04:14+00:00

Why did you ask her if she had plans?

aegeaorgnqergerh · 2020-10-27T21:36:26+00:00

This is obviously a retarded answer to you asking a clear question, but what are your goals here?

If you've plenty of other options and don't really care, just move on.

If you like her and want to pursue it, just take back control. Maybe something like "cancel them, I'm taking you to (name of place)" - though worth noting this will only work depending on the type of girl she is. That could massively backfire, but what the fuck do you have to lose if you've plenty other options?

Or just go silent for a few days then suggest doing something next weekend. Again, don't open with such a leading question. Take control. Suggest a time and a place. "I want to take you to (name of place) this Saturday. What time is good for you?"

mintcoffee2 · 2020-10-27T21:54:19+00:00

Anyone know where there is a list of standard shit tests? That would be helpful. I have the same problem, not sure when a girl is just being rude and when it's a test.

Psychological_Radish · 2020-10-27T22:12:48+00:00

I can't believe no one's said this yet...but what the fuck kind of weak ass, moronic question was that?

Text should have been "Hey come to my Halloween party Saturday night." Or whatever. Asking if she has any plans is passive and pointless.

Pretend you didn't even send that stupid shite. The next message you send her should be logistics.

Title	Is it a shit test or a rejection?
Author	spaceshiftin
Upvotes	1
Comments	25
Date	October 27, 2020 9:23 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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