I dont know if this is the right sub for this, but I feel like a sub of people who once subscribed to that way of life and no longer do is my best chance of getting a straight answer.

I dont know when or why my recommended feed started getting filled with StephisCold and MJGetRight videos, but I did binge watch them. However, I stopped watching MJ after a few videos, because he was just so...boring, and his videos were just dragging on the same things over and over.

I continued watching steph, however, as at the time I thought what he was saying made sense. However...now I'm not so sure. Now it seems like he just contradicts what he said in earlier videos...such as before he would say you shouldnt validate women they should chase your validation..now he says it's okay to do that. Or behavior he would call beta in past videos, now he says it's not and he calls people crazy for even suggesting it is.

I just want to know...is there any truth...any substance at all in what they say? Parts of it dont make sense to me...but is there really any part of their "red pill truth" that is accurate?