I appreciate this sub because to me it’s less about “dating strategy” than about recognizing our innate value in a patriarchal society. This has translated into all aspects of my life: career, family, friendships... I feel like I’ve been Rick-rolled. I came here for dating strategies, left with self-esteem.

I’ve also recently started seeing someone special (coincidence?). I have my eyes open and will only invest time in that which adds value to my life and that of future generations. Thanks, all :)