Fully went my own way about a year ago after i stopped talking to this "awesome" female.

We met through friends and she surprisingly into all of the things I'm into...philosophy, astronomy, investing, going to the gym etc. Found out she learned all of that through my friends who hooked me up with her.

She was an Instagram "model" i was a welder at the time while day trading on the side. She was honestly awesome until i was getting suspicious about her weirdly liking all of the things im into about 4 months into us talking. She started to change the subject or avoid talking about interesting things we both apparently enjoyed talking about. In the beginning she said ahe doesnt smoke or drink, i dont smoke or drink so that was a nice touch. But she started to drink when we'd hangout with friends and she would clearly be higher than a kite when we'd go on dates. Then she'd tell me about all the parties she went to, when she said she hates parties earlier in the relationshi. I was never needy with her or gave to much if my time to her. When all if this happened i asked her. Hey did you loose interest in philosophy, investing, working out, bla bla? she said what do you mean i dont really "fuck with all that" then i asked, when did you start smoking and drinking? She said back around 7th grade...we were both around 20 when all of this occurred..she wanted to goto all of the expensive places on dates and since i had a fulltime job and a side hustle she knew i had money. This all happened in about 2 weeks. My breaking point was when i finally saw her without makeup. When she was comfortable with me she would be herself and i learnedreal quick she was an emotional mess with a lot of issue. But anyway i basically told her im done because you lied about everything in your life. You dont have hobbies, you party all the time, smoke constantly, drink always, you just arent that interesting and im having trouble finding any value tou bring into my life. I was nice about how i said that to her but She was pissed and she started screaming at me and how i was just a closeted gay guy since i didn't have sex with her until 2 months in. And that I'm lying about doing well trading and welding because i drove a tiny 1990 miata and still lived at home lol

Im 22 now and i was 50/50 mgtow when this all happened. I couldn't accept any of it. Ive been full mgtow for 2 years and ive never been so focused on my life and my well being.

So anyone who is on the fence about MGTOW. Dont learn the hard way, listen to this sub and create a life for yourself. And dont look back