Traveling far low value?

RedSkeller · 2020-02-04T20:49:29+00:00

Have her come to you, I've seen it too many times where a guy goes way out of his way for a woman and then she bails for whatever reason.

Pete_Worst · 2020-02-04T21:35:18+00:00

Fuck it, if she's paying, then go. Who cares if it looks desperate?

FinancialThanks1 · 2020-02-04T20:13:22+00:00

Yes it’s desperate

knuglets · 2020-02-04T22:35:50+00:00

If she's paying, its not low value. Have her take you out for some expensive dinners while you're at it.

marshll47 · 2020-02-04T20:34:35+00:00

Tell her to come to you. Unless you want to be a sugar baby bitch. In my opinion that is letting her control the frame..

anon_law · 2020-02-04T20:15:28+00:00

Might be splitting hairs, but I’d rather her come to me.

vullnet123 · 2020-02-05T00:11:25+00:00

If she actually pays then why not. As long as flight isn't cancelled its not really a loss if she flakes, you get a free flight to a new city where you can game.

intl_plyrs_clb · 2020-02-05T05:15:44+00:00

Story time:

A while back when I was still figuring my life out a woman I had been orbiting invited me over to her country. I could stay with her, she would take me around.

In my head I thought: "Yeah boi! It's finally happening, I'll be in the sun and between her sheets making those cheeks clap"

Instead I came to a blow up mattress on the floor which her cat promptly proceeded to rip and it went flat. Patched it up, but I mostly slept on the tile floor with a thin piece of plastic. We went to a concert and for a solid two hours some dude from her high school and her were chatting it up in their native tongue while I just sat there on the lawn. Oh and while she was "showing me around" she was on her phone texting the whole time.

Life truly did suck in those days when I had no clue what I was doing with women.

Moral of the story? Unless you have already slept with this woman on a regular basis, best you just go on your own vacation and enjoy yourself and meet new women.

user20180620 · 2020-02-05T07:44:57+00:00

My take on it....

Take the flight. If she offers a place to stay, take it. If you can fuck her... Do it.

But... One say of the trip... Find a reason to rent an airbnb. Maybe so you can go surfing early, or something.

This shows that you are still independent of her.

But overall.... I think the free vacation is worth it to you, even if the girl flakes.

Title	Traveling far low value?
Author	MaseratiDaddy01
Upvotes	5
Comments	21
Date	February 4, 2020 8:09 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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