I’m a black dude from a middle class white neighborhood that & didn’t discover a love for black culture till military & college (all black college)

I have some hood friends I vibe with but it’s only cause they knew me from classes or we work together, none from the gym or parties ever get along w me unless they see that I can pull chicks and I’m not gunna try to force anything

Same with some black women not giving me the time of day when I’m obviously more attractive than them (I’m 210lbs 19%bf) until they see me with someone with a plate or female friend

I got a suspicion it’s cause I come off really white by how I walk & talk

TL;DR : How to give off less Carlton vibes