Is there a correlation between true masculinity and having a meh relationship with your mother?

benhurensohn · 2020-11-24T15:38:03+00:00

Read NMMNG on childhood trauma regarding abandonment

Snowboard18 · 2020-11-24T17:07:36+00:00

I’d say this theory is fairly true

Just from what I’ve noticed throughout my life, guys that grew up in a single mother household ( like myself lol) are often very feminine and beta.

But just because a son has a good relationship with his father doesn’t necessarily mean that he will be masculine as hell. It really just depends on how masculine the father is, if he’s a feminine man without a spine then the son will likely be the same when he gets older. But a very masculine/alpha father figure almost always creates a natural alpha son.

MrNeverDryDick · 2020-11-24T15:43:37+00:00

Kinda weird for me. I started off naturally redpill and slowly went blue due to conditioning.

But I was raised by a single mom. And I saw first hand how women were when they didn’t think anyone was watching them. My mom had no interest into trying to hide who she was. Saw it all.

So naturally when I started dating I treated women exactly how I knew them to be. Not the front they put up for society. But I knew their true nature. But also recognized I gotta put up with some shit inevitably if I’m gonna be getting some pussy from her. Just the way it is.

So I was successful at first by not treating them like princesses. But over time I was susceptible to blue pill conditioning through media and shit.

But for your example I guess I’m an outlier.

satanic_hamster · 2020-11-24T15:45:20+00:00

I also came from a pretty fucked up family background.

If you’re looking for words of encouragement, relax. I made it out just fine, thousands of men do all the time. It’s all hallmark of bad parents generally (and especially mothers in particular) that they try and control you by keeping you dependent on their opinion of you.

Your independence of thought is very important for that reason, and nobody is more full of shit than their own parents are. They’re just human beings like you or anyone else. Idiots, retards, morons, they’re all the same. They don’t have special insight that you don’t have, no matter how much they posture about it. Always be the thinker of your own thoughts.

I used to joke among friends (and it’s the truth) that we could always pick out the boys who were chiefly (if not solely) raised by their mothers. I grew up mostly influenced by my mother and was in a very female dominated household and environment. It took me a long time to undo all that gynocentric programming and bullshit, but yes, I was in the same boat you are.

Tambamwham · 2020-11-24T17:57:49+00:00

No. I have a great relationship with my mother. She raised me as a single mother. She treated me like a man and expected me to act like one. She promoted my masculinity.

TRP_Spooge · 2020-11-25T03:35:20+00:00

could be, i'm really close with my dad and i have a great relationship with him but it's the opposite with my mom, when i used to be close with her i was very feminine and was so socially awkward i would barely look people in the eye. but there are some moms who can promote masculinity.

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Title	Is there a correlation between true masculinity and having a meh relationship with your mother?
Author	Rexile
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Date	November 24, 2020 3:34 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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